Questions

Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi IM's. Just wondering if anyone can help. I have a 17year old son who has been out of school for about 14 months. He has no desire to work despite mum struggling to support him. Everything turns into a heated discussion despite whether I talk to him calmly or not. He has repeatedly said he doesn'...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Help mums I have a friend who's daughter used to be friends with my daughter until one day when she decided that my daughter wasn't cool enough for her, well now she's just a little bitch to my daughter who is a year older than friends kid. Friends kid is constantly trying to out do my daughter, I'...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi IM's, my marriage ended in 2008 and after 5 years I started dating a wonderful man. We have been together now for over a year and while there are always the 'teething' problems in any relationship things are moving forward. I have four children, 2 of them are now adults and have moved out of...
Anon Imperfect Mum
My 19 year old daughter got a tattoo I hate, I feel really disappointed with her. This has changed how I feel about her... How do I get over this??
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi guys. I have a almost teenage son who given any chance or option prefers to sleep in my bed or in same room as me. I love him to pieces and consider it cool in someways and not others. I separated from his father when he was 2 and on and off since birth he has been in and out of my bed . He has...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Is it ok to read your Teen's personal Facebook account behind their back, for the following reasons; 1) To watch out for possible cyber dangers and steer them clear (ie. a 'girl' my 14 year old son has never actually met, messaged him from a 'friends' profile (a boy who he has never actually met)...
Anon Imperfect Mum
OMG where do I start ... My husband has 2 kids from a previous marriage (they were married for 3 years, divorced for 12 yrs!, we have been married for 9yrs have 4 kids aged 8,7,5 & 2). I love those 2 to death aged b16 & g13. We have now been informed by CSA (child support agency) that they...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Advice on step son: Just advice, not judgment please: My hubby has a teenage stepson from a precious relationship, we haven't seen a lot of him growing up as he didn't like where we live so he didn't want to ever visit us. We haven't paid child support for a while as we pay money directly to him...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi IMs, I just am a little unsure how to deal. Sorry this is going to be long. My 16 year old daughter just spent a week with her father and Aunty, they took it upon themselves to put her on a diet (she is only 76kg, and tall for her age, she is in the perfect range) the diet as far as I see it has...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I am feeling so lost today. I've called my mum and asked her to take my baby and my teenager foster son for the day - while I work out how to cope here in. Friday night teenager went to a friend's house. They ended up at an out of control open party - which there is no way in hell I would have ever...