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Anon Imperfect Mum
OMG where do I start ... My husband has 2 kids from a previous marriage (they were married for 3 years, divorced for 12 yrs!, we have been married for 9yrs have 4 kids aged 8,7,5 & 2). I love those 2 to death aged b16 & g13. We have now been informed by CSA (child support agency) that they...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Advice on step son: Just advice, not judgment please: My hubby has a teenage stepson from a precious relationship, we haven't seen a lot of him growing up as he didn't like where we live so he didn't want to ever visit us. We haven't paid child support for a while as we pay money directly to him...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi IMs, I just am a little unsure how to deal. Sorry this is going to be long. My 16 year old daughter just spent a week with her father and Aunty, they took it upon themselves to put her on a diet (she is only 76kg, and tall for her age, she is in the perfect range) the diet as far as I see it has...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I am feeling so lost today. I've called my mum and asked her to take my baby and my teenager foster son for the day - while I work out how to cope here in. Friday night teenager went to a friend's house. They ended up at an out of control open party - which there is no way in hell I would have ever...
Anon Imperfect Mum
My 15 year old stepson came to live with us full time in 2012. After 12 months, he decided he wanted to go home to his mother, because he didn't like our rules. The whole time he lived with us was so uncomfortable for me...he would not speak to me unless he had to, would not look me in the eye,...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Is it normal for my 12yo daughter to hate her siblings so much she is physically violent with them, hitting them, pinching them, kicking them. I'm horrified & want her to see a psychologist but she downright refuses. Her father thinks I'm overreacting and won't back me up at all. I understand...
I would just like to warn all you mummies who have Tweens or future Tweens. Do NOT allow your kids to download the app Kik. It is basically a chat app. My 12 yo foster daughter asked me if she could download it on the ipad. She said that it was age appropriate and that all her friends were on there...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi. I need some advice about my daughter. She has just turned 15, and I was looking at the photos in her phone yesterday, and I found some sexually explicit photos on it, which she says she has been sending to boys on snapchat. This is not the first time she has done something like this. About 6...
Anon Imperfect Mum
My teenage "niece" is coming to live with us for a year next year and she will be attending school out here (we are at least 4hrs away from her parents) I was just wondering if there are any forms that I might have to fill in and lodge so that I can give her permission to attend school excursions...
Anon Imperfect Mum
My teenage "niece" is coming to live with us for a year next year and she will be attending school out here (we are at least 4hrs away from her parents) I was just wondering if there are any forms that I might have to fill in and lodge so that I can give her permission to attend school excursions...