Questions

Anon Imperfect Mum
He’s been cheating on me for months. No concrete evidence, but it’s there! He manipulates and gas lights me. So why can’t I leave? Why is it soooooooo bloody hard for me? I just can’t seem to let go
Anon Imperfect Mum
I am re-assessing my life , and I know that where I am now, isn’t making me happy . But I feel very trapped, I don’t have many friends, or family- I come from a fairly traumatic, past dv relationships and have been with current partner for 9 years - but it doesn’t feel right, there’s a lot that...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi ladies! Need some help here. My husband has caught me lying about money and it’s not good. It’s not the first time I’ve done it but it’s never been this bad. He has always left me to organise our family budgets and bills etc. I have always managed it so we can have all the nice things but it’s...
Anon Imperfect Mum
My son brought it to my attention the other day, that he thinks his father, my husband is videoing me in the shower. I questioned my husband and he denied it. I explained that he was making our son uncomfortable and he better not be videoing me. Fast forward to tonight, my son couldn't let the...
Anon Imperfect Mum
How on gods green earth does a single woman meet men without being on filthy dating apps!!! I go out, not often as I have 3 kids, I'm social enough, play sport, go to the gym (very quiet gym) work in a heavily female dominant industry. I tried dating apps once and I've only had an on off...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I wrote in a few days ago about my husband cheating on me with the masseur's giving him happy endings. I know they say that him cheating says more about him than me, but why did he do it? We had a good s*x life. I did everything he always wanted. I’m a little bit thick but I’m pretty enough I...
Anon Imperfect Mum
My partner and I have been engaged for 2 years, we’re briefly talking about wedding plans… I would like a no kids but our own wedding… is that ok? My partner thinks it doesn’t seem right because his brothers two kids won’t be there, yet my sisters kids won’t be there either. It will be our wedding...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I am at my wits end! I literally just want my husband to SEE me and want to spend time with me! He will spend his Fri/Sat arvo & nights chatting with mates on the phone which I do not want to quash. But when I say I want time for just US, he makes excuses and says shit like I spend time sitting...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I have proof of an adult who has hurt a child. Their own child. I want to take the proof to the police, but I need to be fully prepared because said adult is going to go ballistic at me if the police come knocking. He could get locked up. Said adult has another child, no harm done to, but I’m...
Anon Imperfect Mum
After 16.5 years together & 4 kids, I’ve just found out that my husband has been cheating on me, at a massage parlour where they give happy endings. I’m numb. I’m so devastated. I just don’t know what to do.