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Friday, 15 September 2023 - 19:07
Been with my husband for 18 years (married 8 years). High school sweethearts as they say. We have school aged children together. He’s really really getting to me lately. Walks around almost with his chest puffed out all the time (yes he thinks he is gods gift to everyone), I can’t have a...
Friday, 15 September 2023 - 06:58
I have been with my husband for a 13 years, married for 3. I had 2 daughters now 22, 16, he had a son 24 and together we have a 12 year old. My husband had a terrible childhood, left to his own devices most of the time, mental physical and sexual abuse. No decent role model for what a parent should...
Thursday, 14 September 2023 - 09:13
I'm seeking advice for my beautiful mum. We are going to a solicitor in a few weeks, but hoping for some help before we go to maximise our time with them. My heart aches for my mum needing to consider this. Please be gentle....this is lengthy. My mum needs to update her will, removing my sister (A...
Tuesday, 12 September 2023 - 19:39
Does a narcissist just have so much experience/practice being a narcissist that everything they do/say just comes straight out naturally or do they have to have a quick thinking brain? Like every single thing they do is so calculated, even when you think you’re ahead, nope, they still get you. They...
Tuesday, 12 September 2023 - 15:11
Do I have a right to be annoyed at the amount of crap my fiance buys? He always complains he has no money, but then will go out and buy something we don't really need. For example. We really need a new lounge as ours is falling apart, and instead he bought a $2000 treadmill instead that he HAD to...
Monday, 11 September 2023 - 10:02
I’ve done the wrong thing… I’ve been having an affair which could end both of our marriages and the guilt I’m feeling is awful! The affair is over now but I can’t get over the guilt and my mental health has gone down hill since it all started I don’t know what to do….
Saturday, 9 September 2023 - 16:11
I'm a 59 yr old married mum of 3. I've been married 34 years now, together 38. My 3 children we had super close together, all aged now 29, 30 and 31, all still living at home. My biological father left me when I was about 6 or 7. I got a new stepdad at age about 8. We didn't get along. My stepdad...
Wednesday, 6 September 2023 - 13:58
Back story: We're both kiwis, who moved to Aust separately. We met 7yrs ago, fell madly in love. Had 3 children together (I already had 1 to previous relationship). 2 years into relationship, he was diagnosed with terminal cancer, we married very quickly, thinking he had less than a year to live...
Wednesday, 6 September 2023 - 05:03
My husband & I have been on a very rocky area the last 6 months. I ended our marriage, he insists we’re worth fighting for, I beg to differ & here is why. Things haven’t been the greatest with my health & he seems to be not handling it very well. He’s trying to be supportive but there...
Tuesday, 5 September 2023 - 06:24
Bare with me while I get to my questions....I think my ex is a narcissist (or at least shows a lot of narcissistic traits). I've just seperated from him because I realised I've spent years trying to explain myself to him only to have him emotional manipulate and emotionally abuse me. I was holding...