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Saturday, 21 October 2023 - 19:09
I have JUST finally closed the book on nearly 10 years of my life (nearly 8 married) with my soon to be ex husband. Our entire relationship was filled with infidelity. We were supposed to be on a break since February, to allow some space for me to heal & then the aim was always to come back...
Saturday, 21 October 2023 - 16:59
I don't even know where to start here or what I'm asking for advice for but here goes I got into a disagreement with a family member, anyway My husband got involved came in yelling screaming at me . He is now saying he is withholding buying new dinner because of said disagreement and said that he...
Friday, 20 October 2023 - 18:10
I've been experiencing peri menopause symptoms for a little while but the last couple of months things have really ramped up - specifically in the hormone area. I feel like peri menopause has taken the filter away and I'm expressing my real feelings for the first time in my life, instead of the '...
Wednesday, 18 October 2023 - 09:42
Hi IMs, Been a part of this community now for 8 years and gosh it’s been a wild ride. I’ve got 5 kids, I’m still under 30 and managed to get myself a uni degree and now work in that industry part time. I feel like I’ve achieved the things that I wanted to when I was younger, which were be a Mum and...
Monday, 16 October 2023 - 17:32
I got married at 31 and I've had people shocked I waited "so long" and even been asked if it's my second marriage. I don't tell people what age I got married anymore because people have acted like it's so old to get married at 31...surely not everyone marries for the first time in their 20s? Does...
Thursday, 21 September 2023 - 11:12
Advice on relationship. My partner passed away 3 years ago. Recently started a new relationship (6 months ago) and have been trying to take things slow. I really love this guy. Recently discovered he has anxiety. When he has his bouts of anxiety he goes all quiet and cold on me. Won’t talk, barely...
Tuesday, 19 September 2023 - 22:09
Hi IMs, I just need to vent and don’t want to burden anyone in my personal life. I had a relationship for 6 years to a man I thought I’d marry and have kids with. We had a fun relationship although with ups and downs. I had a lot compassion for his childhood and some fears he had around being...
Tuesday, 19 September 2023 - 19:45
Mums please be kind, I’m in a difficult position and seeking advice. I met a lovely guy 3 months ago, we were both separated with kids but wanting to take things slowly which has been nice. We both work full time so not pushing the relationship side of things and just catching up, almost like a FWB...
Sunday, 17 September 2023 - 20:56
Recently separated after over a decade together, two kids… details aren’t relevant. How do you meet new people? I’m not down to go to town Seeking the opposite of any person I’ve ever been for
Sunday, 17 September 2023 - 11:46
I gave him my best years. The years I looked and felt my best. My carefree years. My happy years. My enthusiastic successful years. My years I was beautiful and on top of the world. I thought I was in love. He fooled me to believe he loved me. It took more years than I care to admit, but he wore me...