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Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi IM's. Please don't make me feel like a bad mum, as I already do. I was never one to want kids, I always used to joke with my own mum that she would remain grandchild-less from me, and should rely on my brother to bring the grandkids to the family. But, when I found out unexpectedly that I was...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Ok, so my 4 adult sons (over 28 yo) always butt heads. 1 and 3 think 2 is the favorite child. no.4 is loved by all, and gets along with all of them. He is the fair haired brother. No. 3 is aggressive and has a major personality disorder with violent tendency. He is verbally abusive and threatens me...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Sorry - long story. Three months ago my husband and I separated after a long time of feeling like our spark had gone, that we had lost what we once had. I asked several times would he go to counselling, he didn’t want to. I made so many attempts to get our marriage back on track, date nights, time...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Ok long story short I have a 4 yr old daughter She has always lived with me Her biological father has mental issues and drug dependencies as in ice, pot, and pretty much everything else He's been in and out of jail He is also aboriginal He was extremely violent to me while we were together and when...
Anon Imperfect Mum
So I became a mother quiet young. Not the youngest of mums but young enough to deal with unwanted advice and opinions! At 22 my first child was born and now at 27 I have three and I must say the advice does not stop with older age! (Not that 27 is old) There's always someone eager to questions the...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi lovely Mammas!! I'll keep it short, I currently work 2 days a week, I'm thinking of going to 4 full days a week, I've 2 kidlets and it would mean more days in child care. The more days will help considerably financially and I'm ready to up my hours, but struggling a little with guilt about...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Not to Facebook please I went to an acquaintances house yesterday who I have only ever spent time with at our kids music/play groups etc. While there our kids (probably mostly mine) got chocolate cookie crumbs on the cream carpet as well as some chocolate milk. I feel embarrassed and like a really...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I'm due any day now to have a baby and I am no longer with the father of our child. I would like to give my child my last name instead of her father's last name or maybe a hyphenated last name consisting of mine and the father's last name. The father of my child and I are talking but seeming as our...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I'm going to make this short. I have a daughter (6yo) and have been separated from her biological father since her first birthday. We were both fairly young when we had her and unfortunately her father did not want to be an adult yet (drank, smoked, partied and did drugs) instead of facing the...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi. Just wondering if anyone has any helpful advice regarding breastfeeding. Im currently 31weeks pregnant with my 5th bub. So far each breastfeeding journey has gotten shorter. Longest being 6 weeka with my first and then my supply just vanishes. Nothing there at all. Ive been a member of the aus...