Questions

Anon Imperfect Mum
How was I so blind to how toxic he was and how bad he treated me for so long? How did I not see it? 15 years he treated me like absolute sh*t, and I was just so blind to it. Then he had this way of manipulating me and having me think it was all my fault and getting me to apologise for his actions...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Please be kind, I know this is my fault but I want to fix this. My son is nearly 7 years old and is still sleeping in our bedroom. He has a single bed in our room, and either me or my partner have to lay with him in that every night until he goes to sleep, then we go to our bed. Almost every night...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hey mumma's I'm stuck on getting advice from anywhere about a current situation I'm currently in and I don't want to go to my mother about it, don't want her worrying, I'm 29 with a 6 year old son and in a fairly new relationship of 7 months with a 25 year old. Things have been going well, my son...
Anon Imperfect Mum
We currently live in Melbourne with our 4 year old and 9 month old. We have decided to move to QLD in the next 2-3 years to be close to my family. We have no help here at all but would have a whole village if we move. Our babies absolutely adore my parents, my mum and our 4 year old have a...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hello 👋 I need some advice around bed time routine. My ex and I do 50/50 with our kids. Things have come to a head recently because of bed time routine. In our house the kids lay down at 730/745 and we (my current partner of 5 years) lay with the youngest (6&7) and read a chapter of their books...
Anon Imperfect Mum
This is a bit of a vent about child care and children on the NDIS. My son was put on the NDIS at 2 for early intervention. He had speech delay, behaviour problems (usually around his lack of speech to voice his needs/wants), poor sleep and a very restructed diet. He is now 5. He has been travelling...
Anon Imperfect Mum
My partner and I have been engaged for 2 years, we’re briefly talking about wedding plans… I would like a no kids but our own wedding… is that ok? My partner thinks it doesn’t seem right because his brothers two kids won’t be there, yet my sisters kids won’t be there either. It will be our wedding...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I have proof of an adult who has hurt a child. Their own child. I want to take the proof to the police, but I need to be fully prepared because said adult is going to go ballistic at me if the police come knocking. He could get locked up. Said adult has another child, no harm done to, but I’m...
Anon Imperfect Mum
My son has an issue with his foreskin, it doesn’t retract and balloons when he urinates since birth, the only advice I was given from a GP a little while ago when I asked about it was that if he’s having trouble and it’s not retracting we can get him circumcised. He was 7 when I asked and will be...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Mums - my eldest son (12) is starting boarding school this week and I’m doing it tough as the build up to the drop off gets closer. We are excited for him and the friends and opportunities this will give him and he is 100% ready to go but I’m really struggling with the grief of it all and having...