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Anon Imperfect Mum
I love my husband but I haven’t been in love with him for years. He can’t see a difference between love and “in” love so doesn’t understand. He’s a good person, but he is the most withdrawn, non communicative, cold person I have ever known. I have spent so many years feeling unloved despite him...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hello I have no idea where to start but really hoping you may be able to guide me. I have been with my husband for close to 20 years. In these years we have had two beautiful children 14 and 12 years old. We have been through massive amounts of loss not just family members but business also...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Please be kind. I have been with my husband for many years. My eldest daughter (10) has a different father. Over the years we have had issues with aggression from him, he has spent a lot of time working on himself and it is very rare we see it now. I have children with him too. The 10 yr old has...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Advice needed. Partner and I have my 2 kids week on/week off with my ex. His teenage son is with us fulltime 24/7. His 4 year old son we have every 2nd weekend plus one night every week for 5 hours. 4 year old is quite spoilt. Starting to affect my two who are saying they don’t want to come over if...
Anon Imperfect Mum
My partner has photos of his exes on his phone. From what I have seen they are not rude. For me I believe it's hard to move forward when you are still anchored backwards. I'm annoyed that I have to ask him to delete them as I feel he should do that out of respect for me. Perhaps I feel strongly...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Have you accepted and lived with an alcoholic. I feel there are varying degrees of alcoholism, for example, severe; drunk all the time, inbetween, and functioning, those who can somewhat control it. Any thoughts or insights would be appreciated.
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi, So this may be a little bit of a long one. I don’t really know why I’m posting. I guess just maybe some advice and a rant really. Me and partner have a decent relationship we got engaged last year we don’t argue often and when we do we are pretty good at sorting it out. However recently we are...
Anon Imperfect Mum
This will be vague because I don’t want anyone figuring out it’s me from the details. I have multiple children and met a complete Toxic red flag who was painted over but that paints come off now. It came off after he made me make late payments and get breached on my rental, it was just in my name...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Am I asking too much? Long story short. I think my rose tinted glasses have been removed. 2018 - Hubby had a back injury. I'm not taking away anyone's pain, I'm very sympathetic, but he lied to his psychologist (work cover), he's a one time wonder, physio once, osteo once etc, never followed...
Anon Imperfect Mum
A long one. Please take the time to read. Ex H and I have been separated for some time now, kids and 2 houses involved. I have asked a number of times to get the ball rolling with financial separation and divorce but he never does anything about it. We are on the same page that we want a house each...