This will be vague because I don’t want anyone figuring out it’s me from the details.
I have multiple children and met a complete
Toxic red flag who was painted over but that paints come off now. It came off after he made me make late payments and get breached on my rental, it was just in my name and talked me into moving in with his family, I have paid everything owed to the rental owner, my payments were perfect up until the last 3 months of living there, always on time and also ahead. So after moving, it’s all happened, cheating, abuse, lies, manipulation. I don’t know what to do. I can’t tell my parents because his family are so so so wonderful and help me a lot and I’m currently not okay health wise with some complications and need the help, but the reason my health is so bad is because my disease flares up from many factors, but stress is what’s currently causing it. So my parents worry less that I am here, I don’t have anywhere else to go, I need to get my own rental but the market is so so so so bad. I’ve got my name down for department of housing but the wait list is huge. I just need out. Is there any secret help out there to secure a rental that I don’t know about? Any advice would be great. Thankyou.
Disclaimer- I am physically safe, so are my children.
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You’re not physically safe, you are homeless because of him, he cheats you’re at risk of stds, and he causes stress that affects you physically. You can tell your parents. His parents being wonderful isn’t a part of it at all. You need to get out of the whole thing, contact your local womens shelter for advice.
You need to tell your parents. You need support at this time. His parents help doesn’t make their son a nicer person!
His parents are probably helping because they can see what their son has done and want to help to try and fix it.
Can you stay with your parents? Is it possible to go back to your old landlord and see if they have any vacancies coming up?
He is abusing you & your children
Tell your parents you need help
Till U get back on your feet again
Family will do what they can
You don't deserve to live this way & you have to be your children's voice aswell
Toxic environment