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Anon Imperfect Mum
I found out that he’s been cheating our entire relationship. Years and years together and kids. All different women. I’m completely and entirely destroyed. I built my life with this man. I loved him with everything I had, and he never even liked me. I don’t want to be here anymore. I fear I’m...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi ladies I have a question to ask so my husband has shocked me by saying he thinks he would like another baby we have 3 together 16, 13, n 10. After my youngest I thought we where done no more which was what he said when we started talking about having our 3rd. Now his said this ive played with...
Anon Imperfect Mum
How was I so blind to how toxic he was and how bad he treated me for so long? How did I not see it? 15 years he treated me like absolute sh*t, and I was just so blind to it. Then he had this way of manipulating me and having me think it was all my fault and getting me to apologise for his actions...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I have a 17 year old daughter who is in the process of being diagnosed with Autism and BPD. I separated from her father over four years ago due to DV and she is with me full time. Recently I have started seeing a man I have known for over 30 years (since I was a teen myself): we have always been...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Why do all the bad shitty people get everything good? Why do they have all the luck? Why do only good things happen to them? Why are they always the happiest? Yet us genuinely good people, just keep getting bad luck every which way! Everything is so hard for us. We get no good luck, and nothing...
Anon Imperfect Mum
My head and heart are both telling me to leave him. It’s gotten to that point now. He is very toxic, manipulative, controlling, liar, angry, gaslighting me, disrespecting me and a pretty bad father. Every bit of me wants to leave, but the thought of him being with someone else is nearly making my...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I’m just need some opinions to help me through this I was due to be married this year however called off the wedding. So my now ex has two kids which I have helped raise and we have a one year old together so I haven’t worked since giving birth. We both decided on a date and he would constantly say...
Anon Imperfect Mum
My mum is a text book narc. Loads of childhood trauma, she passed on as a young mum to her children. My dad is a flying monkey/ enables the bevaiour sadly. We always say if she murdered someone, he would just grab a shovel & join her. Married for 57 years, nothing is going to change. Now they...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi sisterhood, this is a hard one for me but currently seeing a counsellor but I have the worst mum guilt and it is affecting how I discipline my children ( I don't discipline them ) and I also spoil them due to my mum guilt.. I guess I'm just asking for advice not sure on my question but...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hey ladies so I am currently seeing a guy.. it's been a couple of months but recently he had gone 3-4 days without replying to me at all.. the first time he said he was really sick with the flu and now it's been 3 days and the same thing he hasn't answered me.. I have abandonment issues from my...