How do I get over and not get so jealous and angry about my husband past partners? Everywhere we go we run into females that he has been with. Old friends, even at my workplace, I can't seem to get away from being around people that my husband has slept with. It drives me nuts and any comment just sends me over the top, all the drama that comes with it. Comments from people. I wish he had never told me who they were. He has slept with a lot of people. I (now that I am older) just find it disgusting that other people know what he is like in bed. That he has touched them. It doesn't help that we don't often have sex anymore, he blames his age. I have always felt this way so it isn't a new thing (happened even when our sex life was more consistent but not crazy sex life, like I would have liked) It feels like he has had his lifetime of sex with everyone else and is now too old and tired to have sex with me. How do I stop being so needy and not let this upset me the way it does. I know I am the one he married etc but it still doesn't make me feel better. He can't understand why it upsets me when it means so little to him, they meant absolutely nothing to him. Just someone to have sex with. From one to the next to the next. I feel like moving away from everyone we know just to avoid this problem. I am confident but females just seem to be so attracted to him. No matter where we go females look at him. Do I make myself more sexually appealing so men would flock to me? Would I then feel better about it and maybe he might be a bit jealous. I understand that may bring toxicity into our relationship but it may make me feel better too?
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