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Anon Imperfect Mum
I see lots of posts about people feeling tired, not coping & overwhelmed by motherhood. And lots of comments agreeing and saying, yep, me too, don't worry, you're normal. Since my eldest was one, I too felt little energy or enthusiasm for my life. I was moderately overweight (despite fairly...
Anon Imperfect Mum
My youngest daughter now 17 expressed an interest in attending particular sporting event with her Dad nearly two years ago. They attended the odd event and this year she was approached and asked if she wanted to have some promotional employment by the promoter. Fast forward three months later and I...
Anon Imperfect Mum
At what point do you just call it quits on the whole FIFO thing? We have been together almost 8 years and have a 4&2 yo. He works away Monday-Friday and is only home weekends. I used to be fine, I used to rock it but now. Now I hate it. The money is average and there is no more holiday or sick...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I'm standing on the edge. My partner and I are on the edge of breaking. We have two beautiful boys together, they're my world. I don't want them to have two homes. I don't want there to be a Dads & Mums. I don't want them to be at Dads when they want to be at Mums. I have a step daughter and...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I have reasons to believe my partner is a secretive, functioning alcoholic. We have been together for five year and have two children together. We are in our 30s. When we first got together I was aware he was addicted to weed. He would get stoned each night. I stood by him even though I hated him...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I just nees help. This will be long, im sorry. I cant do it anymore. I cnt do parenting, i can do life, i cant do me, i just cant. Im 28 years old. Mum of 2 bio kids and 3 step kids to my ex who i still am there for years after the break up. I fought for those kids through child services when my ex...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi IM's. I need advice from someone who has been in the situation. Basically my mother is a toxic person. Very manipulative and it's always about her. She thrives on starting arguments then it's always "poor me". I have had to deal with this for 32 years. Anything and everything, no matter how...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I don't know What to do, or who to talk to. This may seem really disjointed, i'll try to make as much sense as i can. This year, i'll have been married for eight years. Together for twelve, and have three children aged six and under. I've just turned thirty, and am not sure if i'm having some kind...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi no judging please as it is a sensitive topic. I'm going to be vague about some details as many of the details would identify who I am. My partner and I have been together for quite a while and a little bit before we got together officially (we were seeing each other while it happened) he had sex...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Please help! My husband is shitty with me because i dont wish for him to have a man cave when we move house... i have absolutely NO issue with him having his own space. None at all. My concern is he suffers from depression and anxiety, and if he has his own room he will selcude himself and hide...