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Anon Imperfect Mum
My daughter is 13. I just want to scream. What the hell?!?!?! I was informed by the school, she told one of her teachers that she was asked for nudes by a man she didn't know and he was sending pics of himself to her. (PS: she is not allowed on social media and there has been a ban on it at home,...
Anon Imperfect Mum
My 17 year old son has just opened up and told me he is gay. I'm very proud of him to tell me this as he said how scared he was. I told him no matter what that I still love him and it doesn't change anything. But I'm not sure where to go with it now. I want to make sure that he makes the right...
I'm curious what people's rules and expectations are for their teenagers. What time is bed? Do you allow during the week sleepovers? Do you allow them to have a beer? What sort of punishment do you invoke if rules are broken? If they have a part time job how much of their pay if any do you take for...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hey everyone, just wanting some advice or recommendations on the best prepaid mobile smart phones , preferably under $100? I am wanting to buy a mobile for my son he is going to highschool next year, and I want to be able to have a phone for safety( he will be riding to & from school) and a...
Anon Imperfect Mum
My teenage daughter has been sexually assaulted. Historically. Went for 7 years. She broke her silence earlier this year. Police, therapists and everyone needed is involved. Basically the whole family is seeing someone to try and help. A few months ago one of my vibrators ( yes kept in a box hidden...
Anon Imperfect Mum
My daughter is finishing grade 12 and wants to go to Uni next yr. The Uni she wants to go to is 3 hours away (we live in a small rural town). We support her 100% but are not in the position to offer her financial support. I am worried how she will cope finacially and how realisistic it is that she...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi, do people think that it's to young to leave a 14 year old home by himself for two nights while I go away? He will be 15 in February & quiet mature. He is not one for parties or people. Has anyone else left their teenager by themselves while u went away & how did it go? Thanks
Anon Imperfect Mum
Do people think it would be ok to leave a 14 year old home by himself while I go away for two nights? He will be 15 in February & quiet mature. He is not one to throw a party or anything. Has anyone else left their teenager at home & how old? Thanks
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi mums, especially those who have raised girls past the teen stage. My daughter is pre teen but hit the "interested in boys" stage. I feel it's too early but I've tried to approach this with open coversations, and so far she tells me everything that's going on eg: likes a boy, he gave her a small...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Update: our son's friend Thanks to everyone for the advice, it's been great to see the opinions people have put forward on how we are feeling about this situation. I firmly believe a mother's instinct is always right and we are gong to trust this. We don't believe we are the ones with the problem,...