Questions

Anon Imperfect Mum
I'm kindof getting tired I hearing "it's ok you've had 3 kids" when it comes to my weight. I hear it when I talk to others about my weight and I tell myself too. Well I can't use that as an excuse. It's not because I've had 3 kids because after each baby I weighed lighter than before I was pregnant...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi IMs, Desperately seeking advice on why I won't stop bleeding 4 months postpartum. I had a baby 4 months ago in late Oct. normal vaginal birth, no stitches, had a moderate postpartum haemorrhage which was then treated with a d&c bled only lightly for a couple of weeks after. 3 weeks ago I got...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Any hairdressers out there have some advice to help... My stepdaughters hair feels like straw (and often does when she's been at her mums for long periods) we use a good brand shampoo and conditioner for dry and damaged hair and when she was here for two weeks over Xmas holidays her hair was lovely...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I am finding it increasingly hard to deal with the way people treat me. I am always friendly to people at school/kinder pick ups, meetings etc... But I find that people are always cool towards me and nobody ever speaks to me unless I speak first. My own sister-in-law included. Today I tried to make...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I was wondering if there are any mummies ( or soon to be mummies out there) that have heard of CMV. If you haven't please google it. 50% of the population has had it but its mostly spread through toddlers and it can be a terrible thing if you contract this for the first time while pregnant. All...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I am a 35 year old female. I have always struggled with my weight but it is now out of control. I don't know exactly what I weigh, but it is over 150kg. I am too embarrassed to find scales that go any higher than that. I know that in large part this is because of my own choices, and I have to live...
Anon Imperfect Mum
A child I know recently started school. He came home with news that an older child had touched him "down there" before physically assaulting him and offering him money for his silence. The older child then went on to intimidate the young boy daily until he was identified. The school handled it with...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I.M Qu: Surgical Menopause: Hysterectomy Wanting to hear from any ladies who have undergone a hysterectomy for menopause reasons, or, how it affected menopause when you had a hysterectomy for whatever reason. Considering having a hysterectomy (in peri-menopause and already finished family) to speed...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hello, I'm a single mum of 2 beautiful children working a long full time week. And 2 nights a week they are with there dad. I'm struggling to do things with the kids that make them know they are so special to me and all of this is for them. My week goes Monday off Tuesday leave at 8 back by 5 (...
Anon Imperfect Mum
As a mother of a nearly 3yr old I am forever being asked, So when's the next one coming? Or people saying You better hurry up before age gaps too big. Etc etc. I'm sure you all know the kind of questions I mean. Now here's my advice - Unless you know the couple VERY well its simple... Don't ask...