Questions
Tuesday, 5 April 2022 - 06:58
Am I overreacting here? My husband admitted to me that on a boys weekend away they were on cocaine (while drunk), it took me to tell him I’d be calling all his mates to find out the truth and if his lying saying “no he hasn’t done drugs” then I’ll be super angry. I got suss because in general convo...
Monday, 4 April 2022 - 21:14
My partner (together about a year) is always grouchy. He swears and raises his voice at inanimate objects (tv, phone, remote, dishes, chairs, car.. whatever isn’t working properly or is “in his way” or whatever..) It makes me really uncomfortable and in a way, scared at times. It loud and it’s just...
Monday, 4 April 2022 - 19:19
What's wrong with me. All the relationships I've had (including current) I go funny at the 3 year mark. It's like I just find any and every excuse to say hey this person isn't right for me and I nit pick at them yet stay until about the 5 year mark. But I really feel like my arguments are valid!...
Sunday, 3 April 2022 - 22:55
Bare with me because this is a long one. Would you “let” (for want of a better word) your partner travel overseas for a holiday without you? I’ve been with my partner for 2.5 years. Before we met, he had planned a 9 week overseas trip for 2020 to the USA and Europe to attend hockey tournaments. The...
Sunday, 3 April 2022 - 19:13
Polygamy has anyone done this and where did you find your gf? Nz based cannot find a thing about it
Sunday, 3 April 2022 - 16:33
I was in an unhappy marriage for 18 years and stuck it out for my 4 beautiful children...you know the old beliefs - kids are worse off in a broken home blah blah. Long story short, I made the decistion to give my children the broken home and we all thrived - winning.... Five years after my marriage...
Saturday, 2 April 2022 - 11:27
Hi IM's, Is anyone very happily married to a man but constantly thinks about women? I wasn't very lucky in relationships & had some bad ones, I even had encounters with women which I enjoyed but never thought of an actual relationship with a woman. 7 years ago I met my soul mate, we've been...
Saturday, 2 April 2022 - 09:03
Background to my marriage. I have been married 26 years with 2 amazing children now in early 20's and not at home. My husband is a very generous man but as for romance and talking about any issues we have had over the years that is very non existent. I have hardly ever felt adequate with him and...
Saturday, 2 April 2022 - 03:02
I’ve lodged a DVO and need to attend court in 3 weeks. Can I ask what happens at court? Do you bring witness’s or witness statements? Any other helpful tips? I can’t afford legal representation and feeling overwhelmed by this.
Friday, 1 April 2022 - 06:12
Background- my (35f) husband (42m) and I met online 8 years ago. We got married 3 years ago. 12 months ago we went through a rocky patch and seperate for a few weeks but ultimately decided we wanted to work on things. While our marriage hasn’t been perfect since than it’s slowly gotten better. Now...