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Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi I have a now 2 year old with my ex partner, he is still in his life from time to time when he feels like it but we don’t have any formal arrangements, when he wants to see him he will either come over to my place or take him to his fathers for an hour or so then back to me. But my question is my...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Has anyone here eloped? Who did you have at the ceremony? Did your friends/family that weren’t there get upset that they weren’t there? What did you do for it? Pros and cons on eloping? Thinking about eloping?!?!
Anon Imperfect Mum
Long story short…..lost my partner to cancer 3 years ago. Was a long tough battle for both of us. Met a guy who is so lovely. He moved in, discovered all is not as it seems. His son lives with us full time while my 2 boys are week on week off with their dad. He also has a 5 year old (different...
Anon Imperfect Mum
My partner and I don’t have sex often, 2 or 3 times a month on average. We have been together 8 years. He’d have sex every second day if he could, I don’t have a high sex drive. I don’t know if it’s the anti depressants I’m on or just a lack of interest in sex because I often don’t get what I need...
Anon Imperfect Mum
My husband is a functioning alcoholic… His behaviour doesn’t change at all and he will literally have a beer for breakfast at 5.30 am and continue to drink throughout the day until he goes to bed . I believe it’s a carton of mud strength beer per day allwhilst maintaining a management role! Should...
Anon Imperfect Mum
My fiance and I have been together for 5 years. We have 3 kids together, 4, 2 and 1 week old. In April 2022, I was 6 months pregnant and basically from January this year up until June, we were not getting along. Everyday was an argument, we had some changes with his daughter coming into our care,...
Anon Imperfect Mum
So, I found out today that my husband was. twin and baby died during pregnancy (I don’t know how far along). Sister in Law (A) told me. She said Mother in Law (B) told Brother in Law (C) about it. Subsequently. C told A, and A told me. Tonight I told my husband. I felt he had a right to know. My...
Anon Imperfect Mum
My ex husband and I have been divorced for 5 years now. We both live in a small town and I travel away for work a few days a week. He has the children while I’m away at work. I have moved back to the small town where he lives so I can see and be involved with the kids as much as possible. I’m...
Anon Imperfect Mum
So today my teenage son was sick, I decided to tell work I will not be coming in, no big deal work is fine and supportive except my husband he said staying home looking after him was making him soft and I need to stop babying him. I get paid for time off so that’s not the issues. I tried to ask why...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I have been separated for 15 months, marriage was over long before that. My ex is and was not a nice person with significant narcissist traits and was and still is abusive. I met a guy who seems lovely but the rest flags are popping up for me but I am not sure if it’s me who over analyses...