Questions

Anon Imperfect Mum
I’ve recently found out hubby has been conversing with a friend. A close friend of mine. That many times has made it known to myself and others in the group how wonderful he is. And how jealous she is of my relationship with him. And other men she has taken an interest in and found out they’re...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I have been separated 2 years and went through mediation for a parenting plan but didn’t get very far. I have now tried to apply for legal aid but the ex has not responded therefore my application was denied. Also denied proceeding to court as the issues were not “substantial” enough. There is...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Together 20 years married 15 4 kids together Separated about 1 year ago His was a gamer and didn't have time foe us How do I let him go i fell out of love with him about 4 years ago stayed together for the kids now his has feelings for an old friend of ours I get upset and Anxious when he gos on a...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi lovelies I’m sure this has been asked before but how does one let go of their wants, desires and beliefs because their partner doesn’t want the same things? Little back story…. Now divorced been with partner for a few years both of us have kids from previous marriage, really happy moving forward...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Has anyone met someone while a solo mum with a baby. Not after insults or put baby 1st etc. Just really curious of experiences out there of this Interested to know if its a total put off or a good thing to some. I know theres wonderful people who step in and step up with partners with kids. Would...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I'm lost & don't know who or what to turn to. I'm so sorry if this is long. I've been under the same roof as my ex for 10 years. We have been separated for around 5 years of that 10. We have 3 kids together, 8, 7, 5 & a 13 year old from a previous relationship of mine.the 7 & 5 year...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I'm a mature woman early 60s have divorced and met a lovely gentleman we are now in love and enjoying our lives together as much as we can as we do live a distance away from each other my problem is my children don't like the fact I have met someone they don't fancy him I understand it's hard for...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi IMs, I’ve been with my husband for 6 years, recently married, we have two kids a house etc. For years he’s been controlling, manipulative and I’ve stayed cause I have a fear of abandonment. Every-time we fight he breaks up with me it only lasts that day but generally he comes crawling back...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi. It may be a long one. So I’ve been seeing someone for over two years now. We live in different towns (3hrs drive one way) I always go to his 2-3 nights a week. We both have kids. I go to his when my kids are with their dad. He is a shift worker so I just go when I can and see him when he's home...
Anon Imperfect Mum
It is so hard to have narcissistic traits and be a mother. I am constantly reminding myself that it’s not all about myself. I worked a super long, draining week at work, came home, and on my first day off my daughter had a high fever. I looked forward to relaxing and de-stressing but My days off...