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Saturday, 15 May 2021 - 21:40
Hi Mums, I don’t know what I need right now, maybe to vent, maybe to hear your stories. My ex and I were together for 17 years. 3 kids. In hindsight the relationship was one sided. Me holding it together and him being a selfish, absent, horrible husband. There was gaslighting on his behalf and...
Saturday, 15 May 2021 - 18:11
I have an engagement ring, wedding ring, and matching earrings from a previous marriage. They are 18 carat gold and rubies. I have kept them, I guess for our son, but am convinced they are "bad karma". 22 years after we split, it feels like such a waste of beautiful jewellery. How do I convince...
Friday, 14 May 2021 - 23:18
How do you put boundaries in place with your ex after moving out? My ex came over today to care for our son for an hour as I was held up after returning from an appointment. As he was was leaving he just helped himself to food without so much of a word to me. It's only minor but I felt he should at...
Thursday, 13 May 2021 - 20:36
I have been with my husband for 5 years now. I'm 46 and he is 48. I'm deeply in love with him and I know he loves me too however I feel that our intimate relationship has been unhealthy for few months now. I feel like he wants to have sex only when we are drunk which I absolutely hate. We are...
Thursday, 13 May 2021 - 19:32
My daughter’s 21st is this year. She does not have relationships with with my husband’s adult children, his children were adults when we met, mine were younger and so no bonding. One in particular, they have clashed a bit in the last 2-3 years (age difference 20 vs 28 at this moment in time), ‘...
Thursday, 13 May 2021 - 08:09
How to date again???? After 17 years with someone who has lots of problems, trying my hardest to live with the behaviour, trying to just ignore. Its time to put myself first and move on and find someone who actually thinks of others. My husband, well we are separated. Has been addicted to something...
Wednesday, 12 May 2021 - 22:11
I'm in love with another man. He's married, I'm married. We've been having an affair for about 5 years off and on, more off than on as I get the guilts then can't be around him for a while, which he just accepts and carries on. We pick up where we left off every time. It's been a year and a half...
Monday, 10 May 2021 - 10:41
I'm in a pickle and need some reasurance that I'm not being a "COW" about this opportunity!! Long story short my husband has always worked away Starting off when we met 14 years ago as a FIFO months at a time now he works "week on week" off leaving me jobless for 12 years to raise our 4 children,...
Monday, 10 May 2021 - 09:28
Potential Trigger (Baby Loss) Some of the background story.. I've been separated from my ex husband of 8 years for 6 months, we have a 6 year old daughter and 4 month old son. We had a rough year 2020, we lost our first little boy when he was stillborn fullterm in the January. 2 weeks after this I...
Sunday, 9 May 2021 - 18:47
I want to leave my husband however I do t really have a real reason to why. I just don’t love him any more. He is great but just not what I want/need. We have 3 kids and all he does is yell and swear at them, he never seems happy which I think comes from the way I am around him. He will always be a...