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Anon Imperfect Mum
Should I let my daughter go to the formal? So there has been a lot happening for my 3 daughter's (11,12,14) Their father passed away earlier this year, and they have all been struggling with grief as individuals. I have been trying my best, but I am failing. My 14yo has been caught vaping, attended...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I’m in a period of uncertainty right now and seeking some guidance. I’ve been with my partner for six years, he is a good guy, respectful, educated, adores my two school aged boys (from a previous marriage) and everyone gets along well. The spanner in the works - my ex husband is moving interstate...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I found out that he’s been cheating our entire relationship. Years and years together and kids. All different women. I’m completely and entirely destroyed. I built my life with this man. I loved him with everything I had, and he never even liked me. I don’t want to be here anymore. I fear I’m...
Anon Imperfect Mum
How was I so blind to how toxic he was and how bad he treated me for so long? How did I not see it? 15 years he treated me like absolute sh*t, and I was just so blind to it. Then he had this way of manipulating me and having me think it was all my fault and getting me to apologise for his actions...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I have a 17 year old daughter who is in the process of being diagnosed with Autism and BPD. I separated from her father over four years ago due to DV and she is with me full time. Recently I have started seeing a man I have known for over 30 years (since I was a teen myself): we have always been...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi sisterhood, this is a hard one for me but currently seeing a counsellor but I have the worst mum guilt and it is affecting how I discipline my children ( I don't discipline them ) and I also spoil them due to my mum guilt.. I guess I'm just asking for advice not sure on my question but...
Anon Imperfect Mum
AITA- 30 year old son lives at home... earns more money than his single mother yet cannot afford to pay board, or contribute to ever increasing bills including his car insurance and tolls. Said child has party - ( without really asking) mother advises as it is ANZAC day the next day the noise...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Mums - my eldest son (12) is starting boarding school this week and I’m doing it tough as the build up to the drop off gets closer. We are excited for him and the friends and opportunities this will give him and he is 100% ready to go but I’m really struggling with the grief of it all and having...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I sometimes cry in my car all the way to work when I think of all the things he’s put me through over the years. Certain things just trigger memories. He’s ruined every single bit of my life. My happiness, my parenting journey, my social life, my mental health, my looks. Just everything, including...
Anon Imperfect Mum
My DD best friend is horrible. I am over her and her behaviours- they’re teenagers and have been friends since kinder. The kid’s behaviour stems from family issues- S.A, child protection, passing through homes etc. So I understand where it is coming from, I was the safe person that she decided to...