AITA- 30 year old son lives at home... earns more money than his single mother yet cannot afford to pay board, or contribute to ever increasing bills including his car insurance and tolls. Said child has party - ( without really asking) mother advises as it is ANZAC day the next day the noise should be kept to a minimum in respect of neighbours who may need to rise early for the dawn service. Party goers very rowdy during the night, foul/vulgar language used a high volumes to way into the night and early hours of morning despite being asked multiple times to tone it down.... Next day mother gets message from neigbnours with photos of damage to brand new fence that had been erected less than a month prior and arrives home that day to find damage to house ( back sliding door off rails... broken chairs and table... stainson carpet. This is the final straw Mother loses her %^& at 30 year old child and gives him eviction notice... is Mother over reacting
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No, he is 30 years old time to go. It sounds like he has a lot of friends so don't feel bad he can crash at their place if he can't find anywhere.
No. Also, ensure all damage is fixed. The neighbours can go through small claims court if necessary
Kick his ass out. He's taking advantage. I was paying board at 16 when my mum lost her single parent pension and I went of new start. If I didn't, until she found work she couldn't afford rent.
No. He needs to go. He and people who damaged property need to pay for fence, table etc. Stop paying for car costs. Is car in your name? Transfer it to him ASAP. Get him to pay insrance etc.