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Anon Imperfect Mum
I'm an imperfect Mum, though I'm not a bad Mum. But at the moment I am really doubting myself. 6 months ago my ex decided to keep one of our three children after a scheduled visit. For the 2 years before this I had care of them for 12 nights a fortnight and he had them every second weekend. I did...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Tonight I researched the best ways to kill myself. I have a constant feeling like I don't want to do this (my life) and it gets so overwhelming that I can't sleep or think about anything else. I've reverted back to cutting myself to reduce the pain but even after doing this I'm still feeling...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I sit here again in tears. I sit here confused, lost and disappointed with myself. How can I not know who I am?? How can I be 34 years old and not even know what interests me? I don't even know how to find myself :( I separated from my husband (his choice), 5 months ago. I was with him for 13 years...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi IMS, Not sure I can be helped but some reassurance maybe. Now please keep in mind I love my family with all my heart and I own my responsibilities. I was a silly teenager, I dropped out of high school got pregnant to the first boy I got in bed with and gave birth before I even turned 20. Fast...
Anon Imperfect Mum
*Possible Triggering content* Hey everyone, I'd like to thank you all for you replies to my post about birth choices. I did more pregnancy tests and even got a digital one which showed me as being 1-2 weeks along. My husband and I were pretty excited about baby number 6 being a massive surprise we...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Kind of a vent more than a question. Please bare with me, it's a jumble in my head I just need to get it out around some supportive ladies. My BIL is in jail. He did something that I would like to punch his lights out (repeatedly) for. I help his mum by taking her out to see him. I don't go in as I...
Anon Imperfect Mum
My three year old has recently started a new play group that is intertwined with the kindy I will be sending him to next year, it is fantastic and he loves it! There are some children of different ethnicities that attend, my son was pushed over by one if the ethnic children and he screamed loudly "...
Anon Imperfect Mum
My husband and I are getting ready to build our own home. Jump forward a year, our family will be 6, 5, 3 and 1, with my step daughter (10) every other weekend. We know we would like a lounge room, playroom and study, but unsure on how many bedrooms. I've always thought all kids needed to have...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I currently live in Melbourne with my partner and our 10 month old. For the past 3 or so years something in me has said to move to Queensland. The main reason is the weather. I am so sick of the cold and inconsistent weather in Melbourne. There are a few things holding me back. 1. Work. I worry I...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi, just after advice. So my friend is having a destination wedding, and asked me to be bridesmaid. I'm happy to pay for flights and accommodation, etc but I'm wondering how people feel about buying their own bridesmaids dress ($200+) as well. She has said she understands if we can't afford to go...