Questions

Anon Imperfect Mum
Do you follow a weekly/ monthly budget? We never have but we're currently trying to borrow (more) money to build another house and I suddenly feel like like we're being really irresponsible with our finances and living beyond our means. I'm not sure how we're not in a heap of debt when I compare...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi.. I am a single mumma of 4 kids ranging from 5 to 16.. I have full time care of my kids , thanks to an intervention order (my ex sexually abused my eldest daughter) . I am currently renting a house in the perfect position. Close to school and kinder. Only problem is, its cooold. The only form of...
Anon Imperfect Mum
My husband and I really really want to buy a house! We are so sick of renting and want the stability for our 3 children. However, we don't have a deposit or a guarantor and I'm on centrelink (hubby works full time). Is there anyone out there that does home loans with no deposit or guarantor?? Any...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I'm not talking about extreme cheapskates type thrifty, I don't feel that we all need to share underwear or anything silly like that... but where I can I prefer to be mindful about what I am spending. I buy lots of stuff 'reduced to clear' at the supermarket. I don't buy take away or store bought...
Anon Imperfect Mum
We are currently looking at buying a house- we have almost $80,000 deposit. We are a family of 5 and my husband is self employed (pty Ltd company if that makes a difference). He earns around $63,000 per year, I have a small online, from home business and between my wage from my husbands company and...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Whenever something wet, or I get wet and it touches my skin I feel TOTALLY grossed out. Wet hair (mine), swimming lessons and the kids splashing me, getting wet in the rain etc. I sometimes feel I could gag. It's just gross! Am I alone with this?
Anon Imperfect Mum
I am really starting to think something is wrong with me.. everytime i make a friendship with someone i get sh*#ed on i bend over backwards to help and be there for them but its never in return i always say never again but it always happens as thats the type of person i am and i think people just...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Dear ladies, please help me figure things out and see things in perspective. After leaving a very long term relationship (and having three children to the same man in said relationship, only having slept with this one man, my ex partner), I want to get out there, meet people and see where it goes...
Anon Imperfect Mum
It's the early hours of the morning and I've started my day, and once again, I'm letting those silent tears stream for my daughter as my children are asleep, I can not say the words I want to to him, but I need to express them some how. To my daughters father, I know, you are not worthy, your not...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Is there life on the other side of Ice ?? There's still love , but it's questionable .... There's no trust what so ever , there's a mass amount of worry every time he walks out the door alone .... There's remorse for what he's done, but he can be cocky and an arsehole when I question where he's...