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Anon Imperfect Mum
I want to start off by saying I'm a super nice person, I get along with pretty much everyone I meet. I can't seem to Make friends though, I have many acquaintances, just not really anyone I could class as a 'friend'. I don't even know where to go to meet friends. My job involves working alone, so I...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Not for Facebook please I've developed message anxiety. I swear every time I get a text message or any kind of message and hear that 'ping' my stomach clenches and my head starts thumping. Lately the only people who message want to whinge about some drama in there life. They just want to unload. I...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi Ladies. I just had a baby, a beautiful little girl (my second) She tore me, and I have god knows how many stitches, I'm walking like John Wayne, I've got a saggy belly, swollen boobs, my skin is horrible, my hair is frizzy, I don't have the energy to shave my legs or even attempt to straighten...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Kelly a really awesome selection of videos which may help you get traffic back on track around here Empathy https://youtu.be/1Evwgu369Jw Blame https://youtu.be/RZWf2_2L2v8 Vulnerability https://youtu.be/sXSjc-pbXk4 Critics, do they count? https://youtu.be/8-JXOnFOXQk Empathy: http://www.youtube.com...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Does any one have any ideas on how to relax and switch off. I've had a crazy year and a half! I left DV which resulted in him keeping the house as it was his. An avo and MANY court hearings which are still going on. I lost my best friend in a big blue. Im a new single mum to a 8 month old son now...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I just wanted to give a shout out and acknowledge those friends some of us are lucky enough to have in our lives. The ones that help you with your kids when you fall off a chair and break your ankle (yes I was sitting on it, and yes you can laugh at my clumsiness) the ones that are at the end of...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Has anyone sought Australian citizenship as a Kiwi spouse of an Australian? If so, did you have to do the health check? Other than HIV, TB etc what were they looking at? I ask because I am overweight and have heard that sometimes that can prevent people passing health checks. Seems strange if it...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Please don't post to Facebook :-) Hi ladies, I am desperately seeking advice on how to make my partner feel loved again. Sorry it's such a novel! Lately I have been extremely moody and tired, I have an extreme iron deficiency and am anemic. I have been snapping at him constantly and all he does is...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hey ladies!!! So... I'm a lucky mum of 2 gorgeous little munchkins/terrors. Before I had my kids, I had quite the banging bod. Breats were nice, big and perky (8DD), nice flat tummy and perky bum. I was happy and confident. Now though, after having my kids (who are now 4 and 5), I've lost...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I'm sitting here crying and am so exhausted. My 3 month old has been up every hour between 11pm and 6am for 3 weeks now. My 4 year old is going through an extremely demanding stage. And my partner has such high expectations of what I should be doing during the day. I am on medication for anxiety...