Questions

Anon Imperfect Mum
How do you deal with your husband putting his job before his wife and kids? I am exhausted and I’m sick of it. I’ve let it slide and slide for 8 years but I’m so unhappy. I feel like he is only trying to build a better future for himself. Mine and his finances are seperate. He’s never helped me or...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Child support - what’s the best way? My ex husband and I have been separated for 5 years, have an 8 year old boy and almost 11 year old girl together. Ex husband and I have both moved on with new partners. I’ve been with my partner since 2019, him with his since 2020. He has moved in with his...
Anon Imperfect Mum
My family hate my husband, complete relationship breakdown. They might hate him but he is my support. Recently one of my parents passed away and I’ve been told he can’t attend the funeral, I have advised that he is my support, and that myself and our children need his support. I have said our...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I’m wondering what other people’s thoughts are on getting engaged to a new partner before being divorced from a previous partner? My partner (36 M) and I (40 F) have a 4 mth old daughter together. I have 4 children to my ex-husband and my partner has 2 children but they’re from a relationship prior...
Anon Imperfect Mum
For those who have been ‘separated under one roof’, how did you do it? There is no other option for me (there are literally no houses where we live, and I can’t uproot my children from everything they know/love), I have nobody, but I need some examples of how others did it. How did you ‘spilt...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I think my relationship has run its course. A few months back my partner lied to me about something that wasn’t worth lying about. Now it has left me questioning what else they aren’t telling me. Things have never been easy in our relationship between others opinions and various life issues. Ever...
Anon Imperfect Mum
How do you stay focussed. I have started again. My ex husband and I separated last year, I have had to move due to finances and not being able to afford where we were living and mentally I was in a bad place with no support. I am working but I have eaten into my savings. I feel like im treading...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I don't know where to start. I've been married 9 years and absolutely love my husband but I'm at the point where I want to leave but I don't know how. I have 4 kids, 2 of which are young adults. With the housing crisis I'm looking at homelessness if I leave now and I can't afford this place on my...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi, Just wondering who is the best family lawyer based in the Cairns area for me to have a chat with regarding child support and family law matters. I need to do a change of assessment for child support as my ex has lodged a $3k taxable income and just bought a luxury car worth $100k and works alot...
Anon Imperfect Mum
After years of domestic and family violence and a messy divorce where my ex husband stalked me and threatened to end my life if I left him, my daughter made the decision to go no contact with him. She did this as his outbursts and manipulation was effecting her mental health and impacting on her...