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Anon Imperfect Mum
I made so many excuses for my husband’s behaviour over the years and the way he treated me. He was tired or stressed or overworked or depressed. I was just so in love with him that I didn’t see anything really wrong. Then I really believed that I was the problem in the relationship. I really...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I am pregnant in my first trimester and have developed Anxiety sleeping next to my husband. There is is absolutely no reason for it. He’s a gentle caring man and never makes me feel bad for getting up a million times a night to go to the toilet or take a bath ect this isn’t my first pregnancy...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I'm hoping to get some insight and guidance for those that have come before me. Recent separation from my husband of many years. This was initiated by me. Not due to Infidelity or any major incident. Just complex life, and multiple mental health issues in many family members, meaning our day to day...
Anon Imperfect Mum
How do I get past never having a third baby? I desperately want a third baby but my husband does not, he is so sure he does not want a third baby he would end the marriage over it. I currently have a 9 and 7 year old and have wanted a third for years and he knows it but I finally pushed it this...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Is there anyone who had been through the process of getting a consent order for sole parental responsibility or one parent "relinquishing their rights"? Both parties are in agreement in this situation, as one parent has had no contact with the kids in nearly a decade (their choice) and the kids...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I have just found out yesterday I am pregnant with our third child. It was unplanned but clearly poorly prevented. My hubby was booked in for a vasectomy consult in 2 weeks! I am so torn about what to do, we always said we would only have 2 kids and I would hate to ruin our marriage by having a...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I have the opportunity to apply for a new job that would be FIFO 3 weeks on 3 weeks off. I’m a single mum to a 4 year old, my mum is encouraging it as the pay would be life changing my daughter would have so much more in life and we wouldn’t struggle every single day. I’m just worried about...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi Mummas, If I could ask for some advice… I think I have developed romantic feelings for my best friend. We are in constant contact and I genuinely miss her when I’m not with her. She makes me genuinely happy and I feel like a better person just having her around. It’s complicated by the fact that...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi So my Kids dont want to go to their dads. They’re 7yo and 9yo. He lies to them doesn’t follow through with things. Mentally messes with their heads. My son 9yo is refusing to see him. My 7yo goes but only so he doesn’t get ‘mad’ or ‘sad’. He had her the other night and I got a message at 8.15pm...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hubs and I have been together since our teens. Weve had our ups and downs but made it through together. Weve got beautiful kids and work hard for what we have. He works DIDO 7/7 and always has during our relationship. Theres been 2 occasions about 10 years ago where i found out he was calling "...