Questions

Anon Imperfect Mum
My partner messages his ex. Then deletes the conversation. From what I have red there isn't much to the conversations, he shares pictures of our daughter and son which I don't like. We have had issues regarding this before and has caused massive dramas. I don't trust him. I've never really had much...
Anon Imperfect Mum
My ex-husband and I have been separated for 4 years, married for 15 years and have 2 kids. He started a relationship with someone new 6 months ago which is fine and all, she’s really lovely and good to our kids. He decided to move overseas to be with her and will come back once or twice a year to...
Anon Imperfect Mum
More of a vent because I’m mentally exhausted. Been with my partner for 12 years. Got 2 kids together. Most of our relationship has been full of ups and downs. Sometimes I feel so frustrated and hurt by him and other times I feel really loved. Alot of the stuff he’s done never really made sense to...
Anon Imperfect Mum
So my husband had what I would call an emotional affair. He has been calling and texting a female work colleague for about a month, which escalated to VERY inappropriate conversations. Lines were definitely crossed, including them saying how hot the other is, how they’d like to do this and that to...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Have any of you left a long term relationship with a narcissist? How did you recover? How did you heal? How did you get your confidence and self love back? How did you get your memory back and heal the brain damage? Really need help with all of this right now! So sick of not being able to think or...

Sex

Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi everyone I have been with my partner for a really long time. We are married with 3 kids. He was my first. Our sex life sucks. I feel like he is a wham bam thank you mam lover. I am literally never satisfied. He never cares that I never have an orgasm. I am not an overly sexual person but he...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I've just woken up to the fact that my husband of 15 years has been covertly verbally abusing me from about 3 months after we got together! It has been so sneaky and subtle. I knew all along that something wasn't right, but I thought it was me just being too sensitive when he lost his temper/...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I met my ex #1 in high school we didn't date to I was 19. We lived together and tried for a baby. How ever I didn't see it. He was controlling. A text book narcissist. Cut my friends and family off. He was financially abusing me, sexually everything but physically. Made me feel crazy to I did go...
Anon Imperfect Mum
How would you handle/solve this issue? (Sorry, might be a long one) Me, my partner and kids moved cities (better living, we were unhappy where we use to live and needed a good change) - this meant moving away from my family. It ended up causing a lot of issues and upset amongst my close family...
Anon Imperfect Mum
What's the point of getting engaged? My fiance proposed to me mid 2020, and now he's saying marriage is just a piece of paper? He said he doesn't want to spend a lot of money on a wedding, and doesn't even like the spotlight being on him. So I'm wondering why he proposed to me in the first place?...