Questions

Anon Imperfect Mum
Has anyone applied for a NIL loan before? They’re asking for 90 day’s worth of bank statements. The problem is, I have 2 bank accounts. 1 is what I opened up when my ex and I split, my pension and everything goes into it (opened because I don’t want him knowing how much Centrelink etc I’m getting)...
Anon Imperfect Mum
How do I deal with an ex wife who is controlling but constantly changes her mind. I love my partner and his two kids but the ex is putting a wedge. I need help with the most recent. My partner and I live 40min away and when talking about moving in I was moving to him so he didn’t loose out on...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi ladies. I am struggling with my husband's sexual history. He has slept with a lot of women and on occasion has been with prostitutes. It has only started bothering me and I'm not sure why. We discussed ex partners and sexual history before we got married. We grew up in the same area so alot of...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Does anyone have any experience or knowledge of their partners having experimented with a man In the past? I’ve been in a 4 year relationship (but we’re friends with benefits for 10 years prior, which makes it even more confusing). I was in love with him for many years (as was he) but we never had...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Can anyone clearly tell me what the form is that you fill out to get kids passports without fathers signature please? (Former DV situation, zero contact with father of kids anymore)
Anon Imperfect Mum
My mother in law is suffering dementia, bought on by mini stokes. She is not that far gone.. she isn’t forgetful but more confused whilst trying to have a conversation. She still lives independently on her own with help of her family and help from cleaners, support workers etc. I my self have...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I had dinner with my sister and her family tonight. On the way home my 15yo son asked me if I noticed the way his step father interacted with his 19yo female cousin (we were in separate cars). I asked him what he meant and he said for example the way he held a conversation with BIL was quiet and...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Has anyone found that losing weight killed their marriage? I’ve recently lost about 25kgs, I did it because I wasn’t happy with the number on the scales, I feel like I still look like the person before. I’ve never had much of a sex drive but I put out to keep my husband happy. I’m not a very...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Im feeling really lost and i guess i need some advice on what to do. Sorry its a long one. My parter of 9years broke up with me nearly 1 month ago but we are still living together in the house we bought with our 2 young children. Friends and family dont know about the break up, ex-partner has said...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Does anyone else bleed a little after sex, but only when they go on top? No std’s or anything (recently been tested). Sex doesn’t hurt. I’m late 30’s. Just curious why.