Questions

Anon Imperfect Mum
I am currently a part time foster mum (long back story) but basically they move between us and their nan. They are both under 16 and I have just discovered they have joined Facebook secretly and are friends with their mum (which is against DOCS orders) My question is when my hubby and I talk to...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi Just out out of curiosity, why do we have imperfect mum blog but no imperfect dad? Why is it that always mother is criticized but father is left alone. Why mother is always answerable to whatever she does or did not do? I have never heard of a man feeling guilty over issues being discussed here...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I found my teens (16Y/O) FB login details, Logged in was shocked to find that teen is sexually confused and looks as though teen has had threatening rape SMS sent to phone (by the looks don't know who it is exactly that sent them) Also seems random adding of people has opened up a world of...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Looking for gift ideas / Meaningful pressie for a lovely mummy friend who is having her 2nd bub under general anaesthetic. Her first bub was also born under ga so she's really struggling with missing the birth of both her kids. I know nothing I can do / say will make it okay but just after...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I work 7 days a fortnight and on the days I have off my son is in day care as I use this time to cook, clean and run errands. I also catch up on sleep as he is a terrible sleeper and teether, etc we have had a lot of issues and I had pnd. But I feel guilty that I don't have him with me, and feel I'...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I'm feeling like a very imperfect Mum at the moment, so please excuse the length & thank you to those who take the time to read. I'm 23, & a Mum of a 4 year old boy & my stepdaughter who I took on full time from day one. She is almost 3. I'm lacking self confidence. Today I tried on...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I yell at my 21 month old. It's really hard to stop! I hate it when I do it & feel really guilty afterwards. Any hints on how to stop. Thanks.
Anon Imperfect Mum
I have just found out that I am pregnant with my 3rd child. The age gap between my youngest and the newborn will be 6 years. At first I was in shock, than I was happy but now I really don't know how I feel. My husband was set on just having 2 children, but now that I am pregnant he is really...
Anon Imperfect Mum
What age do you think it's okay to leave your kids with grandparents and go on a holiday by ourselves? Our son is 4.5 years old and is cared by his grandparents 2 days a week and has lots of sleepovers. He adores his grandparents and lives being there. Hubby and I are considering going away by...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Please excuse the novel, just trying to get it all in. About 2 months ago I wrote in about my ex, he was pushing me, grabbing me, and holding me to the ground because I was on my phone and after he snatched it off me I wanted to leave so he tried to stop me by doing all of this. This wasn't the...