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Anon Imperfect Mum
My 16 year old son keeps on manipulating me or even lying to me. We have cought him out so many times that even the psychiatrist confirmed it. I can't carry on like this anymore. I do not trust him at all. I have 2 other boys and no problem like this which means it ends up me treating them...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Trigger warning: sexual abuse and self harm So I'm not sure how to handle this situation I'm in and could use some support or advice or something. Back story: The "father" of my eldest was found guilty for the rape of our daughter when she was 4. Since then I have done everything possible to help...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I think this is more of a jumbled rant than anything else. So here goes. A couple of months ago I finally got up the courage to say I want out of our marriage. I use that term loosely as we've really just been existing in the same house for years :( However, I am convinced that my husband has...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Partner left me when we found out I was pregnant. After a long emotional haul, I have decided to keep this child and be a solo parent. The ex is aware I have decided to keep the child. I have put forward that the door is open if he would like a relationship with his child. He has not responded to...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Any one else really struggling this time of year? This is my second Christmas without my little one for Christmas as I can't offer her the Christmas she deserves, in my eyes. I was seeing someone for about a year and a half, last Xmas we decided this year we would give his children and my child an...
Anon Imperfect Mum
This is hard to articulate, possibly because I have been guilty of this in the past but please people just stop asking if someone is going to have any/anymore kids. At the butt end of 2 years of trying and a miscarriage with time ticking away and the biological clock winding down when you find...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I got hacked yesterday. The people logged into my online banking and moved money out of my savings account into my spending account. 2 different transactions. They then moved money out of another savings account into my spending account and made 2 huge direct debits. I've lost 11k. They then spent...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hello Imperfect Mums. I need some advice on how I approach this and I guess what I can do. I feel like ending a friendship purely based on the health of said friends children. She’s an excellent friend in most aspects, we talk daily and we did see each other almost daily.. however her kids are...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Would like to get into a teacher aide / school officer role in the new year Am a cairns local and have struggling to get any position I have applied or put through as an expression of interest . I have the certificate / qualifications and would be willing to take on anymore needed. I cannot afford...
Anon Imperfect Mum
How do we heal ourselves? How do we get over our own shocking physical emotional and sexual abuse we’ve endured as children ourselves and be any kind of a parent for our kids? How can we make all the right decisions in our kids lives when our own parents actions or non actions helped mould our own...