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Anon Imperfect Mum
Ok. Not sure where to start or how to start it. I have been a parent for 19 years! In that 19 years I always always put my kids first. As the years went on I got people telling me that I need to start putting myself first at times and take care of my own well being (being a single mum). Well I...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I'm 23 and my mum and dad got divorced 2 years ago. My mum has never fully recovered she bought the house and is still sleeping in their bed. He moved far away and I ended up following him with my daughter. He told me last week he has been talking to a women online for months and drove 14 hours to...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi ladies Myself and my partner have been trying to conceive for nearly 2 years now with no luck. My question is do we go to the doctor or directly to the fertiliy clinic? We live in a small town with few doctors who charge through the roof however we do have a fertility clinic an hour out of town...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi imperfect mums. I'll try to keep this as informative as possible but please bare with me. I grew up in an extremely abusive home. From as long as I can remember, there's memories of sexual, physical and emotional abuse. I guess you could say we had a toxic start to life. Over the course of my...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi mums, When my friends are around or I'm at work I'm perfect at acting like nothing is wrong and I'm happy, bubbly and positive When I get home I'm angry, snappy, impatient and negative and want to be alone My husband of 12 years wishes I could be like that with him cause he's worried about our...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I get my period every morning. The minute I wake up it starts and it finishes around 11. Its always a lot of blood or clotted. If I don't get it in the morning it will come later in the arvo for a few hours. I'm on the pill and not the white tablets yet. I feel dizy and tired all the time and...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I need some advice/ideas where to start. I need to move on from my partner. We have 4 children - 2 together and I have 2 from a previous relationship. After my last baby the place I worked for closed down and my partners mental health has gone down hill. We have been to see someone and he has tried...
Anon Imperfect Mum
How to be happy ? It may seem obvious to some. But I'm struggling. i have a great life, as a single mum. Im able to do what i love an enjoy for work which allows me to 90% of the time work from home. Which in turn I'm there for my kids. What most people would kill for.. But I'm not happy. I am not...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi Kelly & Kristy. I just want to post this incase there are IM's who don't recognise they are in a DV relationship. There seems to be a few from time to time. This is from a friends DV diary, I haven't named her. Diary of a DV victim. Every day you wake hoping he will be better. It's usually a...
Anon Imperfect Mum
5yo behaviors My daughter has always had a little temper but recently she is started acting out in rage. At first I thought it was a power struggle of her demanding to always get her own way. It could even well still be that. except now if she doesn't like or agree with what is being said, done or...