Questions

Anon Imperfect Mum
Is it just me or is motherhood so damn lonely? People you think that are there for you just arnt. I have a handful of friends and I’m always the one reaching out for catch ups and play dates to be knocked back 95% of the time. How many times is enough before you just give up!? It makes me feel like...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Is there a way to navigate them? I can never figure out if they like me or not? Or why I even care I'm 41 Years old! But yet, there I am every school pick up and drop off - wondering if I'm going to bump into one of them, will they say hi, will the brush off my wave/hello. A little back story - my...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Our bills are paid, roof over our head and we don’t go without (some times might just take a few weeks until we can get something we like) but how do i get over the constant stress over money. My husband doesn’t care, because as long as our bills are paid, we’re fed and our child’s happy that’s all...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I’m laying in bed feeling like I’m ready to give up. I’m a single mum of two. My daughter just didn’t listen. I’m not kidding I’ve tried over the years time out, bedroom, time in, talking softly, yelling, rewards charts. I’ve done parenting courses. She just ignores. Tonight she’s doing handstands...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi I need advice on what to do, I’m sure it’s not probably an issue but I have horrid anxiety and over thinking this like crazy. My daughter is booked in for a cake smash photo shoot tomorrow, she’s just began vomiting, has very red cheeks and is being very clingy/sooky. Do I message the...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I fall asleep, and I’ll wake every 30-45 minutes during the night. It’s been like This the last 3 days with the longest stint being just over an hour. I have no idea why. My kids have slept at night fine for a very long time. Even when I am sleeping I feel like I’m not really sleeping at the same...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I’m currently in the deep darkness of PND - diagnosed by my GP and now Psychologist. I’m seeing the psychologist regularly and dealing with it. But tell me it gets easier with two children? I have a 6mth old and a 2.5yr old. Tell me I’m in the thick of it and it’ll get easier. I love them...
Anon Imperfect Mum
So last year I was put on a medicine that has the side effect of weight gain I have done everything to not gain weight, eating right, exercising. But sadly I have put on 20kg. Every time I look in the mirror I see how big I am. I have stretch marks on my arms and all over my stomach. I’ve gone up...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Sorry this is going to be a long post. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years He has 2 sons I have one daughter we both have them full time. My daughter is 2 so she knows him as dad as she has never meet her "sperm donor". When we first go together he was amazing. I remember the moment I...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I have two sisters and we were raised by a single mum. Our childhood was very emotionally abusive. Mum left our VERY physically abusive dad when we were younge I was 3 and my sisters were 5 and 6 (my eldest sister and I remember ALOT of bashing’s, dad raping mum, swearing, running, hiding. The...