Questions

Anon Imperfect Mum
How do you deal with not being the favourite child? down to the fact the dogs take priority over you!! I can never go to her with a problem as the answer is always " I don't want to know or not my problem" While growing up mum spent most of her time chasing after my brother, leaving me at home by...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hello mums I am just wondering if any other mums have become scared of things they otherwise were perfectly fine with after having kids. I used to ride horses and my husbands work is based around them but after having my babies I have become terrified of them. I have no idea why I feel this way I...
Anon Imperfect Mum
before reading on majority of what has been written here my mother always told me what happens in these four walls stay in these four walls then she wondered why I never spoke to anyone or only gave vague details. I incidentally became a bloody good at keeping things to myself. Surprisingly I am...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi IM’s I’m in desperate need to vent and maybe some advice/support. It’s bit of a long complicated story but I hope it makes sense. I’m currently 37 weeks pregnant with our 3rd child, this is our first planned pregnancy and it’s been a bit of a roller coaster. We found out we were expecting while...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hey, I dont know what I'm really after.. I just need to get some things off my chest. I've been I'm the shower for the last maybe 20 minutes crying, and just everything that I'm awful at has come to my head and I cant think of anything I'm good at. I feel like a complete failure. A waste of space...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Is it possible to feel that down that you can't even cry. I told hubby today that my depression is taking over my life and nothing seems real anymore and he ignored me. I think I just need to get it off my chest. I desperately want to enjoy life and enjoy my family. Christmas is my favourite time...
Anon Imperfect Mum
For those who have anxiety does it affect your relationship? And how do you manage and deal with knowing what’s real vs what’s anxiety thoughts Have been with my current partner coming up to 3 years. 12 months of the relationship became toxic which came from my anxiety and neither of us knowing how...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Where do i stat when it comes to leaving your marriage of 10 years, 2 kids, a mortgage, bills and other debt. I need to start making an exit strategy to get out of what I now realize is an emotional abuse relationship. We have been together for 16 years in totally, immigrated from overseas. I have...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I’m 8wks pregnant and have hit a slump with my anxiety and depression. My GP has given me Valium as needed and said to just make it to 12wks. What else can I do to control these feelings and get through it? Will it stop? The baby was planned and wanted but I’m struggling so much.
Anon Imperfect Mum
My daughter just turned 3. Shes never meet her dad. His a pig. He meet a girl when I was pregnant. His still with this girl. I've been okay with it. But lately I've been struggling with her. Its looking like she has sensory processing disorder. Shes seeing specialists. She's very hyped too. I'm so...