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Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi there, my query is a bit strange (to me anyway) and long so please bare with me. I'm an imperfect dad and need some advice. Me and my ex have 2 beautiful children together. Since before they were born she has always known that I would absolutely love our kids to have my last name as I am the...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Ok here goes, this is a little complicated but i will give you a little background info so hopefully it makes sense. My partner and I have been together 10 years we have 2 kids together and I have never met his dad. He stopped communicating with him in 2000 when he was 16. His father was abusive...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hello I would like advice please keep anonymous Paternal postnatal depression? My husband of 5 years has two daughters- all of which he has left when they've been 4 months and usually blames their mums. We have now got our own little daughter (5 months) since being pregnant he seemed very distance...
Anon Imperfect Mum
How much time is acceptable for a new born to spend with dad? I'm currently 20 weeks pregnant the dad and I aren't together. And I am wanting to prepare myself with what will be an acceptable amount of time for him to see baby. We have a great relationship but I want him to understand there needs...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I'm concerned that my husband may have some paedophile tendencies. He does not like changing our daughter's nappy particularly if there is a requirement to clean her thoroughly. He also refuses to bathe her. And if she's running around naked he gets an erection which he tries to hide. Please only...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I have a question in regards to, "dating" as a single mum.. I wouldn't introduce my kids to just anyone. But when and if I meet the one I want to be with/fall in love with, what's protocol? All this is learning..
Anon Imperfect Mum
Help / Opinions needed. We are a 1 child family, LO is 4.5. My partner & I live together, have done so for the last 12 months. We are under huge financial pressure at the moment due to bills, day care cost etc. We both work full time. He's her step dad. He's just come out with that he's feeling...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Two days ago hubby had a vasectomy. It took us a long time to come to this decision but after 3 kids 6yr,3yr, and 3 mths hubby and myself have decided we where finished having children and wanted a more perminate birth control. We told our parents and we thought they where supportive of our...
Anon Imperfect Mum
How do you resolve trust issues? Here's a bit of back story- (I will try to keep it short) My partner has been lying to me, about both the little things and the big things. Last was an Internet "dating" site. I found him out and he told me all he wanted was someone to talk dirty to him because I...
Anon Imperfect Mum
hi ladies.. hubby and I might be separating soon and I would rather stay together for the kids but I hate having him around the house etc. we've been fighting every other day/week for a couple of months and I'm just over it.. I don't really know how to deal with letting him have our kids when he...