Questions

Anon Imperfect Mum
I’m not sure if anyone can help or if I’m even asking for help, I’m not quite sure, all I know is my head is exploding. Please I beg do not ask me to see a counsellor, I honestly want to avoid it. When I was little, my mums boyfriend at the time mooested me, for 3 years, 2 others were also molested...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I've been married for 14 years, relationship is stable, and have children, in the last couple of days we have had a miscarriage, obviously upsetting, but when I told my Mum, she said oh I don't know, you will bring these things upon yourself!! Is this a normal comment to make in others opinions? We...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi all, I need help! Before having kids my husband and I were slobs! Well not like the people you see on those hoarder shows but we did not do any mopping/vacuuming/cleaning of bathrooms unless we had to so it could be like 8 weeks between proper cleans! Disgusting I know! Now with two kids we have...
Anon Imperfect Mum
How to leave when you still love someone. Has anyone left a marriage to someone that they still love, and the partner loves them, and there is no DV involved, you just arent happy anymore? He can be sweet, caring and funny. But he is also extremely lazy around the house and with the kids and there...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I have just been given this life changing book from a friend who has been talking about it, so I asked for it. Within the first half an hour of reading it, I had our buckets set up. New bank, new super - everything! Im SUPER excited to start this new chapter in our lives. We have never been '...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I’m just wondering if anyone who has a child not their own in their care that has been removed from the department that they have ended up being able to be the carer/guardian forever. Let’s call the child billy I know children have the right to know their parents and siblings and I’m not suggesting...
Anon Imperfect Mum
So I go to Tafe 5 days a week and have a small back pack I carry to tafe that has my lunch and wallet in it Every day I stop in at the same Woolies to buy a bottle of water and every day the same Woman searches my bag. I am the only person she stops Today I showed her my bag and then after I paid...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi IMs I was just wondering what do you love about your partners? What makes you choose your partner over someone else for a relationship? What traits do you love in them that you don’t see in others? My partner and I’ve just split of two years-mutual- and we want it to work out but we have a lot...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Long read sorry... So... I have this friend who i just met a year ago. I just moved to a small town so have no friends and am quiet lonely. My friend has 6 kids and literally lets them run loose where ever she goes... so my husband has barred them from coming over cause they either break something...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi Ladies, So I have a wedding coming up and I found out recently that an ex bookkeeper related through marriage who nearly sent me bankrupt by stealing thousands of dollars off me through a business a few years ago will not only be attending but will be sitting at my table. I haven’t forgiven this...