Questions

Hi IMs, About 4 years ago, my husband injured his back at his work and has not worked since. He had worked in manual labour jobs (shop fitting labourer, picker/packer) for almost 15 years and was always a hard worker who just wanted to work with his hands. He left school when he was 15, so has no...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi Everyone, I hope your having an amazing day!! Just curious what are the main essentials you need for a newborn baby? I am a FTM 30 weeks to a healthy little boy and just want to know what you found useful to buy for when Bub is born and what you regret buying? Thanks ladies!!! Xx
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hello everyone, My ex husband & I been departed from each other for nearly 2 years. We have a nearly 5 year old together. Bit of background- we had a house mortgage in joint names- title deed in just his, so when he separated I moved out, as my job I couldn't afford the repayments. We had a...
Anon Imperfect Mum
How do families afford a second child? I would dearly love a second child but have no idea how we would afford it i work p/t hubby f/t we rely on grandparents for looking after our daughter i feel like we rely on them too much but we cannot afford for me to be a sahm so how do you fit in a second...
Anon Imperfect Mum
So my partner never helps with our daughter at all. She just woke up crying and he said he would settle her. (Which has never happened before!) I told him what to do and to please not pick her up otherwise she would be a nightmare to get back go sleep.... anyway while i was cooking dinner i was...
Anon Imperfect Mum
So my partner never helps with our daughter at all. She just woke up crying and he said he would settle her. (Which has never happened before!) I told him what to do and to please not pick her up otherwise she would be a nightmare to get back go sleep.... anyway while i was cooking dinner i was...
Anon Imperfect Mum
My husband and I have just recently separated. He became violent during a argument in front of our 2 young children so made the decision to leave. Everything is very settled without my husband & my kids are doing great but I'm struggling majorly financially. I have $32k in credit card debt and...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I have just recently found out my mum put a large amount of her money into one of my sisters accounts for her to look after. My sister has since told my mum that the bank took the money as they were having trouble paying their mortgage (they had an arrangement in place with the bank which they...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Question for the shift working parents, I work as a nurse and I have been rostered to work Xmas as has my husband... My husbands family have not seen my children more than twice this year and only live 30mins up the road... My family live 7hrs away:( my children are 3... What do other working...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I don't know whether this is a rant, or just wanting some pointers from those who have been there and done that. I'm currently caught up in the "its not fair" mind set. I've been seeing news/posts etc regarding about "why should we pay for your kids". I've stupidly read the comments. I'm a single...