Questions

Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi Everyone, Really need some advice please. So my ex and I have recently split and live separately. We have a 8 month old boy together and each have two kids to previous marriages. We lived together for over a year and for many reasons it didn’t work out. Ie ( he kept online cheating and had a...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi. I need help. I'm desperate. Practical support, advice, success stories.... anything. Please. My 6yr old son is displaying suicidal tendencies. He says he wants to kill himself and that he hates himself every single day. It has escalated since school returned after lockdown and he has only ever...
Anon Imperfect Mum
With mental health week coming up, I’m trying to think of ways to help out at work. (Early Childhood Educator). I have thought of doing a post box kinda thing where fellow educators can write a letter to reach out and leave it in the box (or a celebration letter) and have the chance to be anonymous...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi all, without going into a really long story, I left a long term emotionally abusive marriage With 2 young children and my ex husband is becoming more and more unpredictable and quite scary. The children regularly stay with him but he is so angry at me, that I am actually getting scared for...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Update to tricky situations... A few weeks ago I wrote in about an experience with my ex husband and him having assaulted his teenage step son, who is now staying with us. My ex regularly accuses my 14 year old son of having weed, and at that time, threw his things in the dirt looking for it. He...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi ladies this may be a little long so bare with me. A bit of back story. My ex and I were on again off again for 20 years, 5 kids from 17-2. I told him at the start of this year no more. I’m over the crap, his drug abuse, his mood swings, his verbal abuse towards not only me but my kids too. Well...
Anon Imperfect Mum
The last couple of years of my previous relationship, I suffered through emotional abuse and the odd physical abuse at the hands of my then partner, and occasionally his family (emotional from them also, not physical). To the point my then partner had me feeling so low in myself that it was a waste...
Anon Imperfect Mum
What can I do? I honestly don't know what I can do. Covid has ruined our lives. My husband was receiving jobkeeker but ATO placed a review on his payments. We haven't received a payment for 3 months and we are drowning. I am working but my pay covers our bills- rent (real estate refuse to make any...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Help TW - mental health, suicide thoughts Hi, sorry for the lengthy post 🌹 So I have complex ptsd from working in the emergency services for over 22 years. This has lead to major depressive disorder and generalised anxiety disorder. I’ve been off work now for a couple of years. And I’m only just...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Help. I seem to have this insatiable urge to pick at myself. It sounds crazy I know but I cannot leave my skin alone. I'll pick any surface on myself thats able to be dug at....I'll pick till its raw, at the moment I have picked the bottom of my feet, on my heels the skin... I'll pick till it hurts...