Questions

Anon Imperfect Mum
So me and my boyfriend have only been together for two months or so and he found out a couple of days ago that a girl he had a one night stand with before we were together is pregnant. We live in the South Island in New Zealand and she lives in the North Island, he has said he wont be moving up...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Where do I even begin. What do I even say.. I don’t know if this is actually a question or I just need to vent to someone as I can’t to family and friends. I’ve Been with my husband since we were teenagers and now in our mid 30s with two kids a house and both employed. Husband does work 60-70hours...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I need advise and help 😭 I’m a mum to 4 devilish children all with additional needs, an unsupportive partner of 15 years- that’s another story arghh! My mental health since having the kids has been hit and miss big time, I’ve let myself go a ridiculous amount, I just simply gave my all to everyone...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Advice needed. Has anyone had hypnotherapy for anxiety/panic attacks? Im getting them constantly and have been having them in my dreams so sleep is very minimal at the moment. I have been to the gp (they just gave me Medication and a health plan to go see a psychologist). I was on antidepressants...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I’ve been married 30 years with 5 beautiful kids. My husband has bpd, my question is how do you live with someone with bpd? I’m too scared to leave. All that’s left of me is a shell!! 😢
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi sisterhood! I struggle with anxiety at the best of times, but it is so heightened when kids get sick. Not the usual "oh my goodness i hope they are ok" i am good at not being a hypochondriac but i struggle with juggling work. Before having kids sickness was whatever to me. When i had my kids and...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi all, I’m writing this to seek some opinions on a matter that’s been making my mental health decline rapidly. 2 years ago I met my now partner. I had gotten out of a marriage a year prior and he had previously been engaged. When my partner and I met each other we fell in love quickly. 10 months...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I’ve been with my husband for a very long time and we have four kids. I don’t get along with the in laws and it’s civil but they do stuff like don’t like and comment on any of our kids photos and likes everyone else’s and whatever else. They tag everyone but me in posts. Yet they added me on fb? I...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Is this situation wrong or is it me? What do I do? - dad is 36 years old. -son is 15 yrs old. -son brought to dad's a 17 Yr old female friend who was experiencing mental health problems. - 17 yr old 'threw' herself at dad and they proceeded to have a sexual relationship. -this went on for a few...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Im at the end of trying to figure out what is wrong with me. I've seen many drs that fob me off or just do tests that other drs have ready done, im going around in circles. I get bloated to the extreme that I look 6 months or more pregnant. Now its at the point my back is starting to hurt. My...