Questions

Anon Imperfect Mum
Sorry, this is more of a vent than asking for advice. Just feel like I need to come here and “get it off my chest”. I’m just having a bit of a down moment in my life. I’m in my late 30’s and literally have nothing. I know social media can be very very fake and people’s lives are not really that...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I know I will get a lot of judgement for asking this and quite frankly I know I deserve it. I was young and selfish and didn't think of how my actions would hurt so many people. I had an affair with a man who was married with children. The affair lasted 3 years during which time we had a child...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I am at a loss on what to do with my life. I find no purpose or pleasure in anything and I get really down about it. I have three children who are all becoming more and more independent and am finding that I do not know what to do when I am not fussing over them. I cannot work away from the home at...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I feel like a bloody cop out saying this, but when do you finally leave? I don't even know ow what I'm asking... Mid 30s, life is getting worse and worse (and we're the only factor that hasn't changed in out situation, so clearly us as a marriage is the problem) 3 kids and I just can't get past the...
Anon Imperfect Mum
My mum, sister and grandmother all live together and frequently leave me out of things. I am living 40 mins away, work and am raising children. I am the last to know about family news (from the extended family) and when I find out things and get upset that nobody told me, they say, oh I thought I...

Men

Anon Imperfect Mum
Please please don’t read this as if I’m concieded or wanting this attention. I am not and try very hard to stay guarded these days around men. As a teenager I was very flirty and found myself in a lot of trouble to the point I second guess every encounter and make sure there is no mixed signals- I...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hey all!! Probably a really silly question but how do you all clean your kids joggers? Can you honestly just chick l chuck them in the washing machine??
Anon Imperfect Mum
*Trigger Warning* Over a year ago my partner and I made the hardest decision we have ever had to make. We accidently fell pregnant and decided then we, for number of reasons financially, family dynamics, health, our ages etc that a child together was simply not what we wanted. We decided on a...
Anon Imperfect Mum
My ex partner had an emotional affair (so he says) while I was pregnant. I found the messages and begged for him not to humiliate me by bringing this “woman” into our lives again (she had been chasing him about 10 or so years ago, I found messages then too) but we moved 5 hours away and I thought...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hey hey!!! How do I buy a house/small amount of land?? I've just gone back to work after finishing having kids and I'm putting everything I earn into savings, question is, other than saving obviously, what should I be doing or looking into first? Or just wait till I've got the deposit togther?...