Questions

Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi IM’s What does your family do on Father’s Day? Do you spend it as a family or is it, as I’ve been told, a day off for dad? What about Mother’s Day? I know some mother’s days we like to go get a manicure or a massage or something, so yes I guess it’s a day (or couple of hours) off for mum. But I...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hey all!! So I have a split family there’s me, my ex and our four kids who we share about 60-40 custody of!! As much as I try to be friendly to him and keep the peace (there’s a lot of history that if you heard you would wonder why I would want to keep the peace) but I’ve pushed all that aside and...
Anon Imperfect Mum
The quick back story is that I was with my physically and emotionally abusive ex for 5 years. Although he was not the father of my 2 children (now 9 and 8) and never physically harmed them, they saw and heard the things he put me through and coming out of that relationship DS9 has made it very...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Has anyone been in this situation, and how did it turn out? Hi ladies & gents, I am trying to leave my fiancé, father to my two kids aged 4 & 6. No other children involved. We own a house together. My plan is to move out with the kids to a rental apartment for the time being. The kids will...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I'm going to be moving back home in with my mum the middle of next year. To the same town that my ex, who is my daughter dad, lives in. Im so broke I don't have a choice. We live interstate and don't have any one eles to live with, we actually don't have any family or friends where we are. My...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Could my son have an imaginary bully or is he just lying? My son in the past complained about a girl/boy who he could name who would follow him and phycially abuse him when he was alone. Apparently when no teachers are around and couldn't be found. Apparently it was a girl. My son said she had...
Anon Imperfect Mum
My child has had limited involvement with their dad. She is 16 months and probably only sees him one every 6-8 weeks if that. He was violent towards me the months preceding her birth and before our break up. He will come visit then cause an argument and leave early, in our recent visits he has...
Anon Imperfect Mum
My son is 11 and starts high school next year. He still wets the bed. It is only just now that he is becoming embarrassed and anxious about going to bed and accidentally wetting it. Co-mum and I are concerned about the growing anxiety and have been discussing options. We limit his water intake...
Anon Imperfect Mum
My friend has 2 boys with her ex who now is with his ex. She has also moved on aswell. Well her ex has the 2 boys every 2nd weekend. The boys are 3 and 5. Lately the 5 year old dosnt want to go stay at his dads. He kicks and screams at drop off. Last time he said after a day that he wanted to go to...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Advice please. My son has just been diagnosed with ADD. This unfortunately has been missed for a very long time, and meanwhile he’s failing majorly at school. He’s now in high school and myself and his school are doing all we can to help him. Problem being....his dad is totally against the...