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Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi all, Two of my three littles have become absolute nightmares to get to bed each night (4 & 5yo girls). They will come back out multiple times, and it ends in ridiculous screaming and meltdowns when I take them back. It can drag out for up to two hours and drives me absolutely mental. There...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I need help because I realise now this has become my issue. Bit of background my husband for past several yrs has been away a lot for work, which means anything and everything that has ever needed to be done around the home or with the kids Ive always done unless I physically couldnt do. The...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Trust isn't something that comes easily for me. What are some podcasts, books or videos that you've found helpful in changing the way you think? Obviously counseling would be the preferred option, but for the moment I'd like to have something that I can work through on my own. Thanks ladies!
Anon Imperfect Mum
So we’re having a child free wedding to help save on costs as our venue charges children at the same rate as adults and there’s 30 something kids in our family and friends. We sent out the invitations 9 months in advance as people have to travel so everyone had loads of notice. And in addition to...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I am an art teacher and have a wonderfully talented young student, and I mean talented! Whenever we work on a major artwork of hers, when she takes it home to show her parents, her Dad ALWAYS says something negative about her work. It makes me feel so sorry for her. My parents were so supportive of...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Need help for a 9 year old who doesn’t understand that bad choices have consequences. My middle daughter has been have put bursts for the last few days, firstly they start over either a simple task we have ask or because we have said no. She had always been a great toddler and never had to be sent...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I’ve got an 18 month old daughter and lately it feels like all I’m doing is getting cranky at her. She is so challenging! I’m exhausted from dealing with her. She is not a fan of day sleeps lately 🙁 I’m on my own with her every 2nd week as my husband works away. I do get help from my mum sometimes...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Ok I need opinions of people that are not emotionally involved in a situation ( ie me !) Long story sorry My 9 year old son was in school today playing with a school ball - a boy 2 years older who is known to be a trouble maker - (has never caused us trouble but I know he has a track record - )went...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I can’t help but to feel selfish at times. Selfish that I have chosen to have a handful of children. There are times where I feel sad for them. Sad because they never get the time and the attention a single child would get. Live is busy, so damn busy. We both work full time. I changed to flexible...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I have a 6yr old girl who is doing great at school. The teachers however do mention that she isn’t very resilient. This is probably partly because of me, I have just wanted to protect her and keep her in a bubble. I didn’t realise me being this way was detrimental to her or I would have pulled...