Questions

Anon Imperfect Mum
I recently broke up with my husband. I wasn't happy for the longest time. Talked to him, didn't play the blame game etc. Anyway, we had some talks after that and I was upfront and said we wouldn't be getting back together. He is also a big drinker so he does know that that played a big part. Anyway...
Anon Imperfect Mum
For 5 years I have been with a man who I knew from the start was no good. For the past 3 years we have had no intimate connection (be it sex or kissing). I have tried to talk to him many times about this but he gets angry and tells me to accept that he just doesn't want sex. He smokes non stop...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Diagnosis is needed and medication is the point of a diagnosis... so.... My son has witnessed and been subject to domestic violence whilst I lived with his dad we left about 2years ago almost - still has contact fortnightly- he has been in counselling for a while now and is struggling in many areas...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi IM's I am currently job searching after having been out of the workforce for a few years (most places don't even let you know you haven't been successful in getting an interview, what is that? It wasn't like it when I worked before!). I have expertise in one area but am looking for work that I...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Mums, I’m really struggling. I’m struggling with coping with change. Any change. It could be planning to leave the house at 8.30am but being later than that, completing lots of work on a project at work to be told the goalposts have moved and to change everything, it could be being asked to change...
Anon Imperfect Mum
*not for FB* Hey IM's, So this morning my OH woke me up to have a go at me for not washing his clothes.. The past few weeks have been pretty rough and I was sleeping in the spare room for a while.. I just figured, screw it! Do your own! He's been really mean and making me look like an idiot in...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Husband has a seperate Facebook account that he won’t add me to. I’ve requested to be his friend, brought it up with him. He ignores it. He also has a 2nd, fake Facebook account that he claims is for work purposes. So as he can look into people without them knowing it his name showing up. I don’t...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I have rheumatoid arthritis, for diagnosed at 23 but they believe I’ve had it for years. Atm I’m struggling a lot with the pain, swelling and the medicine side effects. It’s gotten me so depressed. I lost my job, I can’t even open a bottle of water or even get out of the bath tub on my own :( Has...
Anon Imperfect Mum
A little under 2 years ago my part-time position in a small office was made redundant. With my daughter starting Prep the following year, I decided to seek out full time work and landed in a job that I LOVE. It is fast-paced, fun and challenging, frustrating at times but our team is fantastic so...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I was given a choice today. One being to resign from my job with full entitlements or take a written warning for talking to staff about my “unhappiness” in the workplace. Which was not clarified and won’t be until the disciplinary action in the following week, if I decided to stay. I have discussed...