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Anon Imperfect Mum
With partner for 10 yrs and we have 3 boys together, we both work however he works away 2-3 weeks away at a time then home 1 week and these times off can be very spontaneous so we can never plan anything unless it’s last minute. now I love spending each and every minute with him when he is home but...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I have a huge fear of my 3 yo choking. She’s had several episodes where she has started to choke on her food. I’ve tried my best to teach her to take smaller bites, not to put a whole piece into her mouth, to slow down, but she just keeps having these moments and I’m absolutely terrified that she...
Anon Imperfect Mum
How to you grieve when you have children and trying to be there for your mum? Trying to make post short and simple. Im 25 years old, mother of 2 children (5,6) and partner of 8 years. In 2017, I lost my only brother. (I cant specify details as this will give away my identity). It was sudden, in...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I'm failing at being a Mum. Yeah, there's the imperfect Mum... And then there's me. This is going to be a long one so please bear with me. My 15yr old and 6yr old Sons live with me. My 11 and 12yr olds boys live with their Dad (their choice). My 12 yr old was diagnosed ADHD 12 months ago after I...
Anon Imperfect Mum
On your darkest days, Do you ever fantasize about vanishing... just disappearing. Just being one of those who walked out the door left everything and vanished...... Sometimes I do. I don't think I could ever follow through....I love my kids and would miss them terribly.... But in my darkest moments...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi All, I'm about 8-9 weeks into my new job and unfortunately I have been hit with a cold/flu type thing. Not COVD, I got tested. I have taken 3 days off, sick leave/leave without pay. This cold/flu has left me completely without any energy and I've spent a better part of the 3 days sleeping. I've...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I was diagnosed with anxiety a few months ago. I didn’t even know that that’s what was going on until the doctor said it to me. Anyway, it’s gotten a lot worse in the last month. Things I’ve done every day my whole life are all of a sudden way too much for me. It really just all of a sudden hits...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hello ladies!! I need some help!! I have always dealt with cycles of depression, but generally never had to be medicated up until my daughter was born (she's 4 now) the cycle of drugs was horrible and really don't want to go back down that road, I nearly did the unthinkable. My question is I'm...
Anon Imperfect Mum
***long post warning*** Im 20weeks pregnant with my first girl, which should be a great and amazing, but instead I feel so empty and alone. Lately it seems like everyone has kicked me when I'm down and I just want to run away. The short list of the main things are: 1. I sold my car to my sister for...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I need work, but I can't work. I have a number of medical issues, but none of them qualify for disability, even all combined. I suffer chronic pain and have a diagnosis of RA.i can hardly walk most days, and my hands are always swollen and stiff. I have a shoulder injury that restricts how much...