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Anon Imperfect Mum
I want to losen the rains on my kids, which is hard for me, as my sons father has a history of snatching our son. Long story, he's on a no contact order. My son is 11and my daughter is 9 We have a little park about a 5 min walk away, and a bigger one about 10mins away. Today, for the first time, I...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hey IM's. Just a warning to you all but around this time there will be a lot of posts in local Facebook groups and other sites about someone having a hard time and could anyone spare some cans/toys/food/whatever. There was one in my local group last night that really pulled at peoples heart strings...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Have any of you left a long term relationship with a narcissist? How did you recover? How did you heal? How did you get your confidence and self love back? How did you get your memory back and heal the brain damage? Really need help with all of this right now! So sick of not being able to think or...
Anon Imperfect Mum
How do you deal with damaging Rumours that is affecting out family and livelihood. My husband has been divorced for 3yrs. Seperated 5. We got married this year. He has custody of their son who is 6. She just dropped him off one day last year and just never picked him up. In October, she showed up...
Anon Imperfect Mum
My daughter is 8. She is diagnosed ADHD. She currently takes concerta in the mornings. At night she takes catapress and some melatonin. She's always angry or sad. She has anger outburst or is crying. She can not emotionally regulate. I'm exhausted. My parents who look after her during the week are...

Sex

Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi everyone I have been with my partner for a really long time. We are married with 3 kids. He was my first. Our sex life sucks. I feel like he is a wham bam thank you mam lover. I am literally never satisfied. He never cares that I never have an orgasm. I am not an overly sexual person but he...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I've just woken up to the fact that my husband of 15 years has been covertly verbally abusing me from about 3 months after we got together! It has been so sneaky and subtle. I knew all along that something wasn't right, but I thought it was me just being too sensitive when he lost his temper/...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I met my ex #1 in high school we didn't date to I was 19. We lived together and tried for a baby. How ever I didn't see it. He was controlling. A text book narcissist. Cut my friends and family off. He was financially abusing me, sexually everything but physically. Made me feel crazy to I did go...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Newly single parent of 3 neurodivergent kids (3yo, 10yo & 12yo). Current custody arrangement is alternate weeks. I work shiftwork, and looking at a roster starting at 3am (Mon-Fri). Not ideal, but I have limited options. Question: Has anyone hired a sleep-over babysitter, to be there for the...
Anon Imperfect Mum
How would you handle/solve this issue? (Sorry, might be a long one) Me, my partner and kids moved cities (better living, we were unhappy where we use to live and needed a good change) - this meant moving away from my family. It ended up causing a lot of issues and upset amongst my close family...