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Anon Imperfect Mum
Help! 13 year old daughter thinks she is treated like a baby with a bed time and how much time allowed on phone per day! Tell me your 13y/o bed time and phone time!?!
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi mums, I'm in the latter stages of agreeing on property settlement with my ex. We have a 6yo son together who is with me 4 days a week. My question is around what sort of agreements you have in place re splitting out of the ordinary costs that might crop up. I work three days a week and make a...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I have 16, 13 and 9 yr old girls. I have been a strict mum due to the childhood I had. I just found out the 16 and 13 yr old are to scared to tell me things because they feel I overreact. My 16 lied to me about staying at her friends house and stayed at her boyfriend and went to doctors and got the...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Question, I am a stepmum. Have been with my step daughter for over 12 years, fulltime. My husband and I decided to give her his old car and he buy a new one, step is 20. We gave it for her to help her, to give a head start and she has trashed it. Food wrappers, clothes, tampons.. you name it, car...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Recommendations for how to set up a room for an 8 & 6 year old girls that share, that will take them through the next 5-10 years. Beds, bunks to share, cabin bunks each, a loft loft bunk each with table and chill space underneath? Help me mum's of tweens and teens. I don't want to set it up,...
Anon Imperfect Mum
So, wondering how much control we have over our 18 year olds. Mine has just turned 18 and I have tried to let them choose their own path but they aren’t making smart choices. I’m angry, disappointed and worried. I get they want freedom and have a good time. I was there once too but it’s like the...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I’m at wits end with my middle son. I’ve posted in numerous other times about him. He’s the boy who was always angry, hanging out with juvenile delinquents, breaking things and got arrested for possession of pot. I took him off to the doctor, he was put on Fluvoxamine, an anti depressant. He was...
Anon Imperfect Mum
How do you deal with an eleven year old child who is acting like an entitled little turd that thinks they have the worst life in the world when really they have it pretty fricken good? Help me work through this because it's making living with them almost impossible. I get it's a tween/teenager...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Yesterday my child told someone he thinks his friend has taken their own life unknown to me my 11yr old has been chatting to others online via a few different apps yes I should have kept checking phone I'm not tech savvy and now I'm at lost of what to do it turned out is was just a prank but they...
So will try and keep the back story short. Ex husband and I have been separated/divorced for 9 years. Our 3 kids are 15, 13, and 11. Each kid at different schools by their choosing (youngest in year 6 and will be going to a different high school than her siblings next year that she wants to attend...