Questions

Anon Imperfect Mum
Does anyone ever regret having a 4th child… I already have a 15, 13 and 8 but have just found out that I am pregnant. I’m also 40 in a few months. I am beyond confused about the whole situation. Once I tell the dad I may be doing it all on my own too as he was insistent that 3 was his limit and we...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Many years ago I got pregnant with a guy I barely knew. We ended up trying to make a go of things. When I was around 4 months pregnant, a letter came in the mail from another woman asking him to sign the birth certificate for her child. I had absolutely no idea! He refused to admit the child was...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Are these results normal? I presented to the hospital with Tachycardia that presents when standing, they did a d-dimer test on me and then when they got the results brushed it off and said they shouldn’t have done the test because I’m pregnant and that skews the results. I’m only 5 weeks and I...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I’m currently attempting to fall pregnant for the first time, I went off the pill at the end of Feb, and I still haven’t had a period, I have tested to see if I was pregnant nothing yet, I have a doctors appointment booked in a few weeks but I’m so anxious and I know that will make it worse :( Has...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Has anyone had a baby after weight loss surgery- in particular a gastric bypass? I’m seeing my surgeon next week and I’m starting to feel anxious about the fact that I may we have another baby. My daughter is 4 and while she is enough and is my entire world I always thought I would have more than 1...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I am a mum of 4. But don’t feel like I have done having kids yet. My family are so negative about how many kids I have already they pressured me into getting my tubes tied. Now I’m looking into IVF. I can’t imagine what they would say if I were to have another. I can’t throw out any of my baby...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Please help! Hello all, does anyone have experience with vaginal fistula? I suspect I have one, caused by a bowel disease. My concern is if I have surgery to fix it, is it fixed forever? Is it safe to have natural labour after its been 'fixed' or does it create complications? Can you go on to have...
Hello, I’m looking for some guidance or to hear from ladies who have gone through something similar. My first born, 10 years ago. (I was only 18) Was an emergency C section after being induced 10 days after due date. We did 13 hours of labour before I had to be rushed in for a C section. My body...
Anon Imperfect Mum
While it may be a topic that causes debate I am not wanting to get into anything other than personal experiences. I was wondering people’s experiences with certain Covid vaccinations with the intention of pregnancy, specifically those that got pregnant after being vaccinated (preferably)...
Anon Imperfect Mum
We have just found out we’re finally expecting our little rainbow baby! It’s taken years of heartache and quite a few breakdowns to get here, and now our current child will be a few months shy of six when their little brother or sister is born. While she is very very excited to be a big sister (she...