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Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi. Ok here goes I am 40, happily married with a 12 and 14 year old, have a fantastic corporate career that includes travel that I’ve worked hard for and I’ve just found out I’m pregnant. We definitely were not trying and it comes as a major shock. I just don’t know if I can do it, I am already...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi ladies, thank you in advance for your time. I had an appointment today where my obstetrician told me before scanning that my hcg levels were extremely high (295,000+ at 8.5 weeks) and he was expecting to find twins. He then only found one baby. Being me, I googled why else the levels could be so...
Hi all! As part of my research project for my masters of clinical psychology I'm looking into the experience of mothers in the postnatal period. If you fit the criteria below and could spare some time to complete the survey that would be amazing! Feel free to pass it on to anyone you think might be...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I’m 47 and I’ve been having sex with much younger men for a while. Just found out I’m pregnant. The father is 21. Not sure how I go about telling him, or whether to tell anyone. I’m not getting an abortion. Seriously thinking about not letting anyone know who the father is, we’d get in so much...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I’m 46!!! Years old and I just found out that I‘m pregnant. My period was late and I took a pregnancy test. I‘m in absolute disbelief and shock that it came up with a big fat second line. I am married with two kids (6 and 9) and don‘t think that even on the odd chance that I don't miscarry I can do...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi, I’m hoping for some feedback on having a Hernia repair, Muscle repair (more than 100mm separation) and a tummy tuck through the public system in Townsville (or any AUS public hospital). I’ve been medically approved and am due for surgery next year. I can’t seem to find any patient reviews on...
Anon Imperfect Mum
My husband left me and I just found out I am pregnant. Please no judgement but I’ve found myself trying to figure out what to do. I have just secured myself a rental, how I still have no idea but I did. It’s just me and my 2 year old son and I’m doing menu log until some daycare spots become...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi everyone I'm a 22 year old mum to one who is 4. I originally planned to have another child when my daughter turned two with an ex partner but we split and I've been with my current partner for two years, I find myself very very broody but my partner doesn't really want anymore at the moment and...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Sorry it’s a long one! I’m stuck between a rock & a hard place. Long story short, been in a relationship for 4 years with a guy. I have 2 children from a previous relationship. Partner is 9 yrs older, never been married, no kids. In the beginning he was like I had dreamt him up. Everyone loved...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I just tested positive to covid, I’m 16 weeks pregnant over the age of 35 should I be worried about having a miscarriage.