Questions

Anon Imperfect Mum
What is expected of your 7 almost 8 year old independence wise. My son is soon to Be 8 but omg I feel like he is 4 or 5. He is capable of doing things himself but just WONT! I am a single mum of 3 my youngest being 10 months. My 7year old will not get his own drink of water (from tap or fridge),...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Please be gentle, I honestly am surprised that I even feel this way. I am 22 weeks pregnant with our 3rd and final child. We have a 4 year old boy, a 2 year old Boy and this baby is also a boy. After having a miscarriage early last year we spent the rest of the year trying to fall pregnant. In...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi all, I need help! Before having kids my husband and I were slobs! Well not like the people you see on those hoarder shows but we did not do any mopping/vacuuming/cleaning of bathrooms unless we had to so it could be like 8 weeks between proper cleans! Disgusting I know! Now with two kids we have...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Feeling like a crappy mum. I feel like I've failed my daughter. She is such a bright girl. But I feel like she's lost her ability to "imaginary" play. She is obsessed with watching a certain tv show. And I've bought her things relating to the show because she loves it. But whenever she plays she...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I’m 36 and i’ve Just found out I’m 5 weeks pregnant. I have a 17.5 yr old that I need to consider that I brought up as a single mum since 20 mths (he passed away). The father is not supportive. I can do it alone but it will be so much work especially being alone again. What are people’s thoughts...
Anon Imperfect Mum
We've had a rough few weeks. In the last two weeks my children have been in two car accidents. One with their mum and one with their grandmother. Nothing malicious and no one seriously hurt just poor timing. We then came home yesterday to find another car accident in which I stopped to call police...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Sorry this is going to be a long post. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years He has 2 sons I have one daughter we both have them full time. My daughter is 2 so she knows him as dad as she has never meet her "sperm donor". When we first go together he was amazing. I remember the moment I...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Mums, I’ve applied for a job but it means putting my 9 month old in home day care/ day care. I go back and forth between being ok with it and freaking out about it. This is my first child if you can’t tell lol (and I’m an anxious person lol) I was ok with it then bub started cutting her first tooth...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Tomorrow I have court. Im feeling sick my PTSD is kicking in big time. I took a restraining order out on my ex 3 years ago so that's why. But this time I'm going because my partners ex took a restraining order out on us. It's a long long story. But there is no reason why she had to. I never message...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Some advice please. I currently work 3 days a week and have the opportunity to take on a great job in a similar role that’s better pay and closer to home. But it’s full time. We have 3 kids, one primary, two in high school so managing after school gets busy. How have other mums made the transition...