Questions

Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi sisterhood. I desperately need some objective ideas and ways to navigate a narcissist. He is an ex of 4 years. Very toxic, controlling and manipulative. Our children are early teens now. I have open and honestly tried every type of way to deal with his ongoing patronising behaviour, gaslighting...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I feel like I'm losing my son My 22 y/o son who lives with me seems to be struggling with mental health issues, he's lacking motivation, direction, purpose and after trying for so long I'm just at a loss as to how I can encourage him to find his purpose and to act on it. His father and I divorced a...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Please help; I’m struggling so much with my 6 year old daughter. It’s taking me so much emotional effort just to write this. Quick backstory, her dad and I seperated when she was 9 months, she’s now 6. (She also has a currently 10 year old sister with anxiety history but mental health currently...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I am a mum of adult children. I have been asked by a very dear friend with a primary school aged child if I would consider being the child's guardian should anything ever happen to her (a godmother of sorts). My friend is in a long term defacto relationship with a man who has adult children from...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi IMs I am stuck in a physically demanding job and I think I will have to leave. Problem is, I can't afford to. But it's having an impact on my physical and mental health. I also have a additional needs child at home. Does anyone have any ideas of work I could do from home such as data entry? I'm...
Anon Imperfect Mum
My 10 year old son struggles socially at school but mostly at lunchtimes. He completely loses control when conflict arises, situations where they are all rough playing, and especially if he’s teased (and he could be teasing too!). He says it’s easier not to have friends or play because of this. He...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Advice please. No idea how to deal with this. Stepchild and my son both 13 recently purchased motorbikes. My son worked and saved and paid for all himself. Stepsons father paid for his. Yesterday sons bike wouldn’t go so couldn’t use it. Stepson said to my son “dad said to watch you with my fuel...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Mine and my partner's relationship is deteriating due to me basically being a cleaner and nanny to him and I'm only hanging on because of my step daughter I do absolutely everything for his child as well as my own whether that being bathing, cleaning, potty training etc he never does anything...
Anon Imperfect Mum
How do I end a relationship without the guilt. Back story is I own the house. He has 2 kids fulltime and one every weekend Friday to Sunday. Houses are extremely hard to find in our area. I want our relationship over and him and his kids to move out but I feel so guilty about it all. When he moved...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Do men think it's only women who are meant to be parents My partner constantly gets to go out places leaving me with both children Don't get me wrong I love my kids with my whole heart but its like that's all I am is a a mother and a cleaner I could never just leave and expect the other parents to...