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Anon Imperfect Mum
Trigger warning child abuse There's no easy way to say this but my daughter told me tonight that my ex has been touching her and having secret "yes cuddle time" for about 2 years. He's not her dad but has been a co-parent for roughly 5 years. I don't know what to do. I feel so fkin sic and my poor...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hey all mumma's, with 6 and 7 y/o and adhd. How the hell do you guys do it. Single mum and overwhelmed. Peads make us the bad guys when we go above and beyond with the capicity we can. I just can't seem to win. The wasting and hiding food, not much junk food in house and we all are feeling the...
Anon Imperfect Mum
My husband and I are together for almost 14years. We were 19 when got together and had baby the following year. We were young parents. We stood by our choice. I didn't force him into anything as I don't want to be blamed. We got married at 21. He asked. We had been through so much. Family issues...
Anon Imperfect Mum
My 3yo DD has to constantly talk! From the moment she is awake to the moment her eyes close. I answer her questions straight away but she will still ask the same question again straight after, she will talk about random stuff and just for the sake of talking sometimes. I don't get a break from it,...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Have you ever seriously sat and thought to yourself, how the hell did I get here? Whether it is a significant event that causes you to ask the question or just pondering in life... Like what the f*#K happened to get me to this point? I feel like I have wasted so much time and energy on people...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I have an IVO against my ex, and he is currently on a good behaviour bond with several criminal charges pending. He has court ordered dinners with our 13 year old son once per week, and much to my dismay the court agreed to one night per fortnight for our son to stay over. Our 17 year old daughter...
Anon Imperfect Mum
It is so hard to have narcissistic traits and be a mother. I am constantly reminding myself that it’s not all about myself. I worked a super long, draining week at work, came home, and on my first day off my daughter had a high fever. I looked forward to relaxing and de-stressing but My days off...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Has anyone kept their child back and regretted it? Socially my 4yo is ready to start prep next year, however I’m just not sure he’s ready emotionally. He’s a saint at school. Out going, caring but does have a little trouble with concentration and a few speech issues which are being seen to. He will...
Anon Imperfect Mum
So I have a dilemma. IlI'ma singke parent and live in a small rural community with limited shopping and other facilities. It is a dead end place. The opportunity for meaningful work is limited. I have teens at home. One has just finished school and will live at home to save money while having a gap...
Anon Imperfect Mum
my 4 year old used to be the sweetest little guy, everyone would comment how empathetic and kind he was. he was cheeky, funny, loving etc etc. but lately it's like a switch has flipped and he just winges and whines over EVERYTHING. I'm lucky that there's no tantrums or anything like that, just...