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Anon Imperfect Mum
I am a single mother to three children. My ex moved out in the middle of the night, without telling us. He left the state. He then contacted the children a few weeks later and a few weeks after that, we had an arrangement where he would have them every other weekend. That was two years ago. 2 years...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi IM community. I’m hoping to get some recommendations for a really good psychologist or therapist who specialises in trauma, specifically around domestic and family violence. I’ve seen some DV counsellors and feel I need some support that is more intensive. I’ve been in two incredibly toxic...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Does anyone know how to improve credit score? I’m 46, divorced, my husband took most of our assets and left me with bills because he put everything in my name. I have 4 kids, still owe money on things we were paying off together, and my job is only part time at present. I was working more but lost...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Just needed to try and ask for some sort of guidance. Trying to cut a really long story short. The father of my children is an alcoholic and drug user. (I have removed myself and my children, and even out a stop to visits at the house) I never wanted to be the mother that stops the children from...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I feel like I’m at Breaking point. I’m all alone through this and it’s really starting to take its toll.. My two eldest kids fight non stop. From the second they wake from the second they go to sleep. The eldest 12 literally started a fight with my 7 year old today because she was putting a lid on...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hello ladies. I've been suffering from Anxiety for a very long time. I've gone to my GP and have always been too scared to go that next step to helping myself get better. But finally now I have accepted the fact for myself to get better is to take that step. I was told by my GP that this is...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Clothes Shopping... Argh. Just the thought of it makes me cringe. And actually going shopping makes me feel worthless. Nothing ever fits. The average age of my wardrobe is 8 yrs old and 90% of it is hand me downs. I have big boobs, (12F... So I need a size 14-16 to get around them and anything but...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Should or should I not join?. I have no motivation I have lost weight in the past but now I’m so lost and thinking this may help. Anyone’s experience is appreciated
I may be freaking out a little sharing this but if it helps just one person it’s worth it!!! A year ago today I escaped from a life that was the earthly version of hell, not knowing where I was headed or what was going to happen I packed up my beautiful babies and whatever else I could in the...
Anon Imperfect Mum
For context: My mother and I have a very strained relationship. She kicked me out when I was 16, which was a relief in a way as I'd endured years of emotional abuse from her. We made amends (for lack of a better word) a few years later but irreparable damage was done. I essentially tolerate her now...